Sunday, 10 January 2016

New year = new rules

My sweet husband is stepping up a bit more in our journey with TTWD/DD.  I've noticed for the past two to three spankings he has been getting harder.  Also when he finishes which is when it is the right shade of RED he rubs my bottom for a bit then starts pinching.  On a freshly spanked bottom this really hurts, so I start ouching.  It appears if my protests aren't loud enough the spanking starts again. Fun and games Bears way.

He sat me down Saturday afternoon to chat about where we are going this year and has set me quite a few new rules.  Usually we just have fun, which I love and don't follow rules of any type.  Apparently there are some issues which need addressing, which don't sound like fun to me at all.  Gulp!

One is I have to ignore my two eldest sisters who continually belittle me.  I'm the youngest in my family with four older siblings.  The two eldest are in their mid 70s.  So a huge gap and I was brought up to respect my elders as most people were in our day.  My second eldest sister has been correcting me so much on face book lately, its getting me down and I guess I've become withdrawn.  I was banned from face book for a while last year until my attitude changed  Now Bear said I need to ignore her or he will help me do this in his own way.  That can only mean a sore bottom.

Also I've been set an exercise and weight program as like most of us, let my hair down over the holiday period.  Especially whilst D1 was staying, I over indulged in foods which are taboo for me health wise. So Bear has set his spare  bike up on a trainer in our garage and I have to gradually build up each day how long I spend on this and keep a food diary of everything I eat.  So he can see when I have eaten forbidden food.  I know for my own health I shouldn't be eating it, but when others do I feel deprived.  Life is so unfair at times!

Whilst we were chatting Saturday, I remembered I'd put my new diary in my bed side table when D1 was coming.  I finished my cup of  tea, washed my cup and headed to the bedroom.  On the way I ran my hand through Bears hair like I usually do when passing him.  He complained my hand was still wet, I giggled and headed for the bedroom.  Bear quickly followed, bent me over the bed, flipped up my skirt and pulled my knickers down.  He spanked really hard until his hand was hurting and my bottom  was stinging and on fire.  When I stood back up I noticed he hadn't closed the bedroom blind. I was so shocked by this and said the neighbours would have had an eye full.  He just laughed and said they would probably join in. When we returned to the kitchen I said my bottom is really sore when I sat down.  He told me I deserved it with an evil chuckle and said behave or I would be back in the bedroom for the belt.  So my new year has begun with a fun spanking.

Wonder what other rules he is going to enforce this year.  Think I better start acting like an angel. LOL!

Have a good week everyone.
Hugs Lindy

16 comments:

  1. Hello Lindy
    I love the fact that your Bear has made decisions over how the new year will be shaped. I have to admit that I pushed so hard against H enforcing time on the exercise bike that he finally gave up. Not a good move on my part!
    I think perhaps you will need to keep your eye very much on the ball and concentrate on not allowing that halo to slip.
    Good luck!

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    1. Hi Janey, I certainly will keep my eye on the ball. Hopefully this year will be bigger and better all round.
      Hugs Lindy

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  2. Sounds to me like you are starting off your new years very well. I think you might try politely stand up to your sister. An email something like "You know I love you, but on your constant corrections on FB tire me out. I'm ____ years old and do not need your corrections, so while we are still loving sisters I'm unfriending you of FB."

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    1. Thanks for your great advice on my sister Pk. Yes Bear and I are starting our new year off really well.
      Hope you are starting to feel better on your new eating plan.
      Hugs Lindy

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  3. Lindy,
    Good for Bear for setting in play rules to help deal with awful big sisters. It sounds like he has a whole collection of implements to use too.
    Meredith

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    1. Bear definitely has a whole collection of implements these days and setting plenty of rules for me, Meredith. Gone are the only just for fun spanks, now it is getting more serious.
      Hugs Lindy

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  4. hi Lindy, must be the time of year! I have just had a couple of rules set today and they too were combined with a spanking. I have had a bad day today tech wise. Clicked on a blog and then got attacked, now have to take my computer in to the shop and cancel all the bankcards etc. have no idea what I am doing but my notebook is off to the shop tomorrow and I am allowed to use hubby's laptop very carefully:(
    love Jan,xx

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    1. Golly gosh Jan, how on earth did you click on the wrong blog? What ever was it to do all that damage? I think our HOHs are getting tougher now and down to more serious rather than fun spanks. Oops, we better watch ourselves. Hope your notebook problem is solved quickly and be extra careful on John's laptop.

      Hugs Lindy

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  5. Hey Lindy, Eric always worried about the neighbors hearing him spanking me but I wonder if they would think anything of it... or if they would even know what it was. Either way, sounds like your Bear is letting his concern for neighbors go. Maybe he should talk to Eric. "Silent spankings" never seem as good as the loud ones. :) Amy

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    1. Hi Amy, We haven't managed any silent spankings here even though we've tried different techniques. Tell Eric what Bear said about the neighbours joining in and that might put his mind at ease. Bear was always worried about them up until now.
      Hugs Lindy

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  6. Hi Lindy, sounds as though Bear is starting off the year in a good direction and getting more spank happy lol. Best make sure you keep that halo intact :) I think it's great that Bear is willing to 'help' you dealing with your sisters.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thanks Roz, yes Bear is definitely starting off with a positive attitude this year and getting more into his role.
      Hugs Lindy

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  7. sounds to me that you have some good goals for the year and that Bear is there to help you :-) My goal is to begin writing everything I eat too...but not until Monday because I just had dental work done and have been eating a diet of ice-cream! :-) Hugs

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    1. You poor girl. I can sympathise with you having dental work. I had some done before Christmas and had several stitches in my gums. Ouch! Hope you feel pain free soon but enjoy your ice cream in the mean time. Maybe you could make some soup, that would be easy to eat. Good luck Terps.
      Hugs Lindy

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  8. It all sounds good to me.... The fun and a few extra rules. Sometimes family members just don't realize how they sound or come across! I say let it go unless it becomes so bad!

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    1. thanks Minelle. The extra rules are turning out to be fun with lots of spanks to keep me on my toes.

      I think my sister knows what she's doing, as she does it to everyone, but even more so to me. Looses so many friends with her attitude. Maybe she needs a good spanking. LOL!
      Hugs Lindy

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