Sunday, 16 October 2016

Don't like vanilla.

I couldn't believe it when I read PKs latest post about her spanking.  We seem to be living a very similar life miles apart, ssometimes.  Both of our husbands are sweet and obviously don't enjoy spanking us except for fun.  It's been so long since we've had any sort of kink in our lives and I find myself really craving it. It was Bears birthday last weekend so along with a few vouchers which I think Ella had in her post.

 I gave him a table tennis bat to see if he would respond in a favourable way. I was under the belief all this would spice things up.

NO......... ZILCH!........ NADA!....... NOTHING!

I feel like I'm slipping down the rabbit hole with no way out. I've tried talking to him about the situation.  His reply is he likes to see me happy and he will spank me later.  Well this has been going on for weeks,  I'm growing old and getting more grey hairs waiting.  I've been putting on a brave face to the public but inside I'm hurting so bad.  Yes I know some of you are going to say "This too shall pass." Seems like the longer we aren't practicing TTWD the less likely we are to return to it. It feels like I'm banging my head on a brick wall, its so frustrating.

The only thing keeping me going at the moment is my daily photos for the photo a day challenge on face book. Also of course reading all your posts here, as you all seem like family to me.

What to do??????  How do I encourage my Bear to get back into the swing of things? Any hints will be appreciated, thanks.

A very  despondent Lindy

Thursday, 22 September 2016

My community

Our little community is devastated and in mourning for one of our young locals.  A week after RUOK day my physiotherapist committed suicide.  None of us can rap our heads around it.  She was always a bright, bubbly girl, had a fantastic job, healthy and had everything to look forward to in life.  Everyone loved her as she helped so many people in our community with her magical ways.  I'm one of those people she helped,  as she managed to get me from relying on a walker to get around, to being able to stand up straight without any  aids and walk freely. Yet something obviously triggered her to commit suicide which is so sad.  This goes to show you can't judge a book by its cover and you can't judge a person by their smile.

Make sure you give all your loved ones an extra cuddle and tell them how much you love them.   Try to spend time with them and look behind their smiles to make sure they're really alright.

Anyway I'm going now to read some of my Cassie's road trip book to cheer me up.

Enjoy the rest of your week.

Hugs Lindy

Sunday, 11 September 2016

Remembering 9/11

From ashes and shattered lives, America dusted off...Stood Up...Rose Up...held hands and sought Justice...never forget 9/11/2001
May Those Innocent People Who Lost Their Lives Be Resting In Eternal Peace Forevermore. Amen!

True or False you be the judge.

Sitting in class on my last day of genealogy one of the ladies asks if anyone wants a puppy, which was going for free.  A $2500 puppy for FREE, to good to be true! No one piped up, so I said my daughter might.  I sent D1 a quick text, she excitedly replied using some very colourful words which I'm not going to repeat,  I told the lady my daughter is interested. I didn't tell Bear about the puppy at all.  The next day I received a text to say come around to meet the puppy which I did straight away.  Bear asked me why I was in so much of a hurry.  I replied a friend has invited me around for a cup of tea, well it wasn't lying as we did have a cuppa.

I fell in love with the cute puppy, brought her home and immediately Frankie started playing with her.  Bear comes in from doing his exercises, spots the puppy and says what's going on here? Instead of saying its for D1 I said we are trialling the puppy,  I asked him if he was angry with me. He just gave me one of those looks and went about his business.  Since then both Bear and I have fallen in love with the puppy so decided to keep her.  Frankie has calmed down heaps since the new puppy arrived here, so its a win-win situation. D1 says she is happy for us as knew I wanted a companion for Frankie.

Bear keeps bringing up the fact that I asked him if he was angry.  All he says is what ever makes you happy.  Golly gosh I think I could rob a bank and Bear would say what ever makes you happy.          So do you think this is true?                                    

Its been raining cats and dogs here, so many parts are flooded.  On Friday we decided to go for our 100km drive  to do some shopping.  On the way the sides of the roads had water creeping up, then on the way home some of the areas were flooded.  Who said they need rain, will send you some of ours? Bring on the warmer weather to dry the paddocks.

Do you remember when you were younger in school and sent to the headmasters office? Today after church the priest asked me to see him in his office after he had greeted everyone.  I was panicking thinking oh no what have I done. I asked Bear if he was told to meet him there also.  No it was just me. YIKES!  I felt like a school girl again.  Phew! in the end it was just to explain how he has ordered some gluten free hosts for me and also once he returns from his three week holiday he wants to do a home visit with Bear and I.  Bear asked me on the way to the car what it was all about so I joked that he gave me a spanking. LOL!  You should have seen the look on his face, it was priceless.

Thursday, 8 September 2016


Today is R U OK day.  I'm sure this is throughout the whole world and not just Australia.  So are you all OK my friends.

Nothing much has been happening here lately in regard to TTWD. Bear seems to have put it on the back burner.  Thought I'd still pop in though to say hello as I have been missing you all.

Hugs Lindy

Friday, 26 August 2016

Been a fabulous week in our household but Shh! better not talk too loud as usually as soon as I say that everything turns around.

Firstly I'm so excited to have made a break through in my genealogy  finding the skeleton in the closet in Bears family.  His paternal grandmother took the secrets to her grave, never telling anyone what really happened.  I've been doing a genealogy course for the past six weeks which has been useless.  With Bears permission I posted on good old face book to my friends in the country where his dad was born for HELP!  Within five minutes I had unlocked the missing links and then another friend hopped on board helping even more.  Now I can go way back to the 1700s to his family in Scotland. Modern technology is wonderful in times like these.

Secondly my photo was chosen on Instagram.  Yipee! This past week we've had to post daily photos depicting emotion prompts.  It's been really hard, so I was most surprised when my sad, lonely egg made the Fab Four.  This is my photo and monologue below.

August 23rd SAD I'm so sad! All my family and friends have left me behind. I hear them giggling and yelling. I want to be sunnyside up on warm toast. Or have some handsome buttery soldier dipping into my core. As for those girls at No. 96 oh la la! Do they not have any shame screaming with delight as they're being whipped with a wisk. Makes my insides quiver.
Yet here l am all lonely and sad in the dark, cold fridge. Please invite me over to your plate so I can sidle up to those crisp bacon pieces.

The weather is slowly improving around here and so is my Bear at last.  I was on the receiving end of at least three playful spankings this week through being cheeky.  Our usual night time ritual we say good night, have a good sleep and I love you.  One night I told Bear I loved him more than he loved me.  He immediately responded by saying "Is that so,  you're going to cop it girl, roll over on your tummy."  Next thing he was warming me up with hard swats quite nicely, a late night spanking is way better than taking sleeping pills.


Bear has been quick to give me swats when passing in the kitchen.  Of late he seems to take a delight, as when he swats me Frankie jumps up to either bite my bottom or maybe to protect me.  Either way Bear thinks its funny.

Hope you all have a wonderful weekend full of fun and plenty of gg spanking.

Hugs Lindy

Sunday, 21 August 2016

Wet Winters afternoon.

Hello from down under on this very cold, wet winters afternoon.  Only 9 more days until Spring, thank goodness, hopefully it warms up slightly.  The weather has been teasing us with one warm day, usually in the middle of the week.  During this week it reached 25c with hot winds then right back to 12c since.

Found these things in our Sunday Herald/Sun thought you might be interested.  Think spanking might be catching on down here with this cartoon.  What do you think?

Then there is this article about revamping your sex life, love number 3.  Write down what you want and open an envelope monthly.  WHAT!   Why can't we have kink all the time? Maybe the sexologist needs to talk to the cartoonist to  know more about kink. LOL!                                                            


Enjoy your weekend everyone and I hope you are experiencing some sort of kink. Please send some warm weather down south to us.
Hugs Lindy