Saturday, 13 May 2017


Happy Mothers Day to all those celebrating this Sunday.  I hope you're spoilt by your children and furkids.  Enjoy your day!

Mine will be postponed until the following weekend when we go to visit our family.  Been such a long time I can't wait.

Have a good weekend.
Hugs Lindy xx

Thursday, 11 May 2017


I love doing memes, so thank you for this one Terps

1.   Where is your phone? coffeetable

2.   Your hair? wavy

3.   Your Dad?  Gone

4.   Your other half? accordion

5.   Your favorite food? curry

6.   Your dream last night? interesting

7.   Your favorite drink? tea

8.   Fear? snakes

9.   Favorite Shoes? boots

10. Favorite way to relax? daytripping

11. Your mood? happy

12. I love? my family

13. Where were you last night? home

14. Something that you aren't? outgoing

15. Muffins? no

16. Wish list item? holiday

17. Where you grew up? Australia

18. Last thing you did? shoppinglist

19. What are you wearing right now?  uggboots.

20. Something you hate? twofacedpeople

21. Your pets?  dogs

22. Friends?  few

23. Life? interesting

24. Regrets? yes

25. Missing someone?  definitely

That was fun.  Look forward to seeing everyone's answers.
Hugs Lindy

Wednesday, 26 April 2017

huge mistake!

I  tried to change my layout on my blog. Big mistake! In doing so I must have deleted  everyone's names, so please bear with me as I slowly re add everyone.

Sorry if I miss any posts over the next few days and if you don't hear from me give me a shout out please?

Lindy xx

Friday, 14 April 2017

Happy Easter

Happy Easter everyone from our house to yours. 

Hope the Easter bunny is kind to you all and brings you something yummy, if not a delicious GG spanking. 

Enjoy your time with family and friends.  Stay safe if travelling anywhere.

Well the end of our Lent challenge has arrived and I must admit it was a huge failure.  It seemed a good idea to start off.

Both Jan and I have been too sick to continue it.  Thank you so much Jan for participating  as much as you did.  It was fun seeing what you and John managed to do. Hope you're feeling better soon.  Sending positive healing vibes your way. 

Happy Easter everyone
Hugs Lindy and Bear xx

Tuesday, 11 April 2017

Ellas answer

Ella asks

I don't remember reading about how you and Bear got started with ttwd. I would love to hear about your Chapter 1.

When Bear and I first met we dabbled in spanking for fun.  This lasted until little humans came into our lives who didn't sleep at night, so it all fell to the wayside.  Come Bears retirement and a move many kilometres away from the family, a fairy by the name of E L James, sprinkled her magic on us to make us shine.

Now to begin with I had never heard of FSOG until dil came to visit saying how disgusted she was all her friends were reading this dirty book.  Shock horror they suggested she read it,  she didn't know how they could be into such filth.

Now I'm always  up for a dare, so when dil and son left I told Bear how I wanted to look into FSOG. He encouraged me by taking me to the library to borrow this book. Oh my goodness once I'd started reading, it opened up a whole new life.  Bear was in the back room playing his accordion whilst I read FSOG sitting comfortably in the lounge room.  It didn't take long for me to want to jump Bears bones as I was so turned on by these books.  Bear asked me what brought this change on, so once I'd explained he decided to do a bit of research himself.  He googled 'How to spank your wife.'  and was totally surprised by how many posts came up.  Both Bear and I started researching more finding lots of sites about TTWD.  The first one I came across was Clint and Chelsea's LDD. I asked Bear to read this, which he did but wasn't comfortable with someone our sons age telling him how to spank his wife.

One thing lead to another, Bear incorporated using spanking for fun into our lives again, thinking himself to be just like Christian in FSOG.  This was hot hot HOT and developed into trying other things like blind folds, his belt and the cricket bat. 

Life was one endless love fest.  I don't really think we are as adventurous as some others out there in blogland, we  do have heaps of fun with our form of TTWD.
Now every time Bear plays that tune on his accordion it reminds me of when I read FSOG.  When our eldest daughter came to visit she said we were like teenagers again. 

Thanks for asking your question Ella.  This concludes all my questions, its been fun.  If for some reason I've missed yours please let me know, as I found a whole lot in my spam folder for some reason.

Have a good week.

Hugs Lindy xx

Sunday, 9 April 2017

Roz question

Roz asks

what is the biggest change you have noticed in both Bear and yourself since ttwd?

Are all your spankings of the fun variety or do you spank for other reasons, such as reset, discipline etc

I think I may have covered your first question in Katie's answer.  We've noticed we are closer these days. Can't keep our hands off each other and I tend to lean in more letting Bear make decisions.

I would love some reset, stress release spankings but no, ours are all for fun.  I think I've only received one punishment spanking which was to prove Bear loved me.  It wasn't very nice and I soon believed him.

Thank you for your questions Roz,  it was  fun answering them. Have a good weekend.
Hugs Lindy xx

Saturday, 8 April 2017

Katies question

Katie asks the following questions.

Since starting ttwd, what has been the biggest change that you have noted? What would Bear say of the same? Do you have any "rules" that is expected of you that you would like to do away with, but follow due to loving submission? Do you have any hobbies other than photography that you enjoy doing? What spanking that you have had, stands out most in your mind, and why? What songs do you enjoy listening to these days? They aren't the same as before, but will be fun to hear from you about these.

I think the biggest change both Bear and I have noticed since starting TTWD is the fact it has brought us closer together and we feel like newly weds again.  Even our eldest daughter says we are like teenagers who can't keep our hands off each other.

We mainly do TTWD for fun, so no rules as such.  I've asked Bear to set rules for me from time to time.  He answers with 'You're always good though.' 

Even though he doesn't set me rules I've found my submission is stronger lately.  I always did do absolutely everything for Bear.  (except ironing)  LOL!  He used to work afternoon/ night shifts so I'd make sure he had a meal to take to work.  He told me none of his work mates wives did that, so he really appreciated it.  Kept the children quiet so he could sleep and a heap of other things.  I refer to him before doing most things, not that I can't make up my own mind.  I just know this makes him happy.

Apart from my photography, I love to do a variety of hand crafts.  I will usually  give something a try once to see how I go. 

Unfortunately with my rotator cuff tear, I've had to stop a lot of activities which is hard to adjust to not being able to do them.

Bear and I love to do road trips exploring new areas, going on picnics and walks along the beach holding hands.  As long as we're together we are happy, no matter what or where our adventure takes us.

The only time I listen to music is when I'm riding my bike for exercise.  We don't have very good reception here, so there is only one radio station.  I really love both Adele and Ed Sheeran, so I guess their music stands out.  Adele had concerts around Australia recently I would really have love to go to see her.

Apart from the two spankings I wrote in Jan's answer, another sticks in my mind. Bear always wanted me to bend over the arm of a lounge chair.  We didn't have any at home, so when we rented a holiday house the opportunity presented itself.  Every night he would bend me over the arm spank me with his nice belt, although it wasn't particularly hard I was tender after it.  We met our children for a picnic in the park one day.  I found it hard to sit on the wooden park benches, so Bear had to retrieve a cushion out of the car.  Bear and I both looked at each other with a grin on our faces.

That was fun answering all your questions Katie, I combined your first lot with your second email. Thank you for asking them. 

Hugs Lindy xx


Abby asks

Hmmm...What is one place you would like to travel and have not yet...does Bear have a different one? What is your favorite dessert to eat?

We both would like to explore more of Australia and plan on going to New Zealand to celebrate our 40th wedding anniversary in another two years. I haven't been there, Bear has when he went on a cruise before he met me.

My favourite dessert by a long shot  is cheesecake.  Any other dessert I can live without.  I've made  a few different ones substituting normal biscuits for gluten free for the base.  This is my toblerone cheese cake I had for the cookie bake off in 2015.  Bear doesn't eat dessert, so I have to wait until someone visits before I can make it.   Its very rich so you only need a tiny slither, but OH ITS SO GOOD!

Thank you for your questions Abby, it was fun answering them
Hugs Lindy xx

Friday, 7 April 2017

PK's answer

PK asks.

If they were going to make a movie about your life, who would you want to play you. How bout your Bear?

Very interesting question PK.  I will answer in two parts, firstly from me who I would choose, then from Bear.  We've been discussing this over the past few days, as it was good to hear his point of view.

I would like a combination of two actresses who come to mind Meg Ryan and Diane Keating.  Just because I think they're both fun loving women.



For Bear also a combination of Sean Connery and Richard Gere as they're both so hot, hot, HOT.  Of course not as hot as my Bear though. 


When I asked this question of Bear, he firstly said he would like Sean Connery also to play his part. Then decided on  Jim Carrey, as he fancies himself as a comedian.



He said he would like to see me portrayed by Beverly D'angelo.

So a bit of a mixed bag there for you PK.  Thanks for asking and giving us both something to think about.                           
Hugs Lindy xx

Cat's questions

Cat asks.....

asking everyone the same question that was asked of me several years ago...What four people (and their spouse/partner), living or dead, would you invite for an evening of drinks and dinner?

If I was holding a dinner party I would want a fun evening with plenty of laughter and entertainment. 

My  first couple would be Billy Connolly and his wife Pamela Stephenson.  Bear and I both love watching Billy's tv shows where he travels across different countries.  He seems to be able to tell fantastic stories,  that would keep the conversation going.

Secondly as we are  both into Adele, I think she would be nice to join us and maybe sing us a song or two.

To join Adele and perhaps accompany her, Ed Sheeran.  The two of them can sing us some love songs to swoon us.

Last but not least, Jerry and Jessica  Seinfeld as Bear enjoys watching his  Comedians in cars getting coffee, also he seems pretty good at telling jokes.

I'm sure with these four couples we will have an evening filled with plenty of delicious food, wine and laugh until our cheeks hurt.  (face cheeks)

Thank you for your question Cat, it really made me think hard about this.  Of course there are a heap more people I would love to invite.  This is a starter though.

Hugs Lindy xx

Thursday, 6 April 2017

Baker's question

Baker asks the following questions.......

What is your favorite ttwd related book that you've read or are reading? If you could only choose one implement for Bear to ever use again, what would it be and why?--not his hand, has to be an implement.

I've read so many books involving ttwd its hard to choose a favourite.  The one I've mostly enjoyed  that comes to mind is the Corbin's Bend series.  As I love how many authors have contributed to writing this compilation.  The story is continual with new families moving into the Bend and incorporating the older residents.  If it were at all possible it would be wonderful to live in a community of like minded people where our life style is accepted.

Since having to rest over the past few weeks I've been reading heaps.  I really like to be drawn into the book as if they are my friends, which happens with our blogger author books.  There was one recently though that scared the daylights out of me.  I was reading away, reached a certain part and my stomach was churning.  I immediately  shot an email off to our lovely Jan as she told me she had read this book. Jan assured me there was a happily ever after, so I continued reading.  It definitely wasn't my cup of tea.  I had nightmares that night after finishing it. Yes, yes I know Lindy is such a baby.  So from now on I'm sticking to my well known authors who write nice happily ever afters. 

Your second question was also part of Ronnie's.  My favourite implement beside Bears hand is his lovely soft belt which leaves a lovely sting without welts.  He only uses his harder belt if he thinks I've been naughty,  so  seeing most of our spankings are the fun variety he uses his softer belt.

Baker thank you for asking your questions, hope this answers to your satisfaction.

Hugs Lindy xx

Wednesday, 5 April 2017

Ronnies question

My next question is from Ronnie who asks.......

Did you have a childhood ambition? Did you achieve it?
If cost was not a factor, where in the world would you most like to visit?
What is your favourite spanking implement and why?

To answer the first part of your question Ronnie, you better find a comfy chair, relax with a drink and some snacks.  Its a long story but I'll try not to bore you.

My childhood ambition started after helping my Mum when she worked in a special school for autistic children. When I went along to help, I had some sort of magic touch with these children.  They would  communicate with me and not others.

Afterwards  that was my dream job, to become a teacher and work with children on the spectrum.  Come the end of forth form (yr10)  Dad puts my booklist in with his newsagent friend.  Two weeks before school resumes in February, no sign of any of my books.  Dad being hot headed said he wouldn't send me back to school because of this.  I was heart broken. 
He didn't even consider sending me back and discussing with the school what happened.  So I was sent out to find myself an office job instead.  Which was really difficult as my school taught the wrong shorthand for most positions.
The ironic thing about this is I now have a grandson who is on the spectrum.  He is one amazing little boy with his own unique way of doing things.

If cost wasn't a factor I would like to travel the world continually,  in one of those luxurious cruise ships. 

Of course we would be treated like royalty, with everything at our fingertips. That way I can pop ashore to visit all ports along the way and drop into say hello to all my blogger friends.  We have cruise ships come into our port for the past 3 years, nothing this flash though.  This last weekend we had an American ship visit, I was so tempted to stow away to come to the USA.

My favourite spanking implement is Bears softer belt.  He has three, which all leave a different impression.  His softer belt leaves a delicious sting but not welts like his hard one. Its heavenly!
I think  that about covers all your questions Ronnie, thank you for asking. I'm supposed to still be resting my arm and now my AS has gone into a flare.  So I'm bored!  Decided to tackle some answers slowly, to take my mind off everything.  Bear has a really itchy hand as he keeps going to swat me, then remembers it would jolt my back.  Can't wait to get back to normal living.

A big shout out to both Jan and Rosie who are also both under the weather.  Boy we're all falling apart, the joys of getting older.

Enjoy the rest of your week everyone.

Hugs Lindy xx

Sunday, 2 April 2017

taking a break

Just popping in briefly to let you all know I'm taking a break to recover from some health issues.  So don't think I'm ignoring all your questions please.  Hoping to be back as soon as possible. 

In the mean time I will pop into read but can't type very much, hope you understand.

Have a good week.

Hugs Lindy xx

Saturday, 1 April 2017

Jans answer to her question.

Jan asked .....What is your best spanking and your worst? Favourite position and implement? Also what is your most favourite thing to do together that is not spanking related?

Thanks for asking Jan.   We mostly spank for fun which ends up in giggles.  I think my best spanking is OTK with Bear playing the bongo drums on my bottom.  Its so funny the way he does it humming a tune as he keeps to the beat.

My worst one though was when I yelled at Bear that he didn't love me anyway, I was in a terrible mood.  So he took me into the bedroom, bared me and used his horribly heavy belt on me.  It hurt so much I got up out of position and started running with my pants and knickers around my ankles to avoid it.   It was amazing I didn't trip over. He chased me into the lounge room still swinging that horrid belt.  We did end up in each other arms  later with some MFL.  I soon realised he did really love me.  Lesson learnt the hard way.

My favourite position is definitely OTK  with  his nice softer belt.  Its stingy but oh so nice.  If he would go on long enough I think I would end up in subspace.  BLISS!

Our favourite thing to do together is either road trips exploring parts of Australia we haven't seen before,  or a walk along our favourite beach hand in hand. 

Hope this answers your questions Jan.  Have a good weekend.

Hugs Lindy xx

Monday, 27 March 2017

March Q&A time

Hello out there, is anybody around lately.  It's been rather quiet and lonely in blogland. Thank you Katie and Meredith for starting the Q&A time.  I wasn't aware of it until I saw your posts.

If anyone wants to ask me a question, I'll do my best to answer it.  Or in turn you can email me your question at  :-

Bear and I are still doing the lent challenge. I've been really slack posting though, maybe will do a huge catch up shortly.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

READY......SET ....GO!  Ask away you've got nothing to lose.

Hugs Lindy xx

Wednesday, 22 March 2017

day 22

Oops I'm getting rather slack with my posts.  I usually write one up at night time, lately I've been too tired by around 7.30pm I can't think straight.

Our door bell rang whilst I was washing the dishes,  I knew Bear was hovering around inside somewhere, so I yelled can you answer the door please darling.  He replied 'NO, you get it.'  So with a huge Harrumph I dried my hands and headed to the door.  On arrival I saw it was my Bear playing tricks, so I said DING DONG AVON CALLING!  To my surprise Bear said its DIAL-A-SPANK  at your service. 

He came inside asked me how can I be of service young lady, which had me in  fits of laughter.  I played along saying I want one with the lot.  He retrieved all his implements bringing them into the lounge room.  Bent me over the arm of the couch starting right in with his spank-a-plank for 6 of the best over my clothes.  Then my skirt was flung up over my back and my knickers pulled down. The next implement was the leather rose paddle which I've grown to like, followed by the ping pong bat. By this time I was ouching away which didn't make one bit of difference as he was a MAN ON A MISSION.  Next came the wooden ruler, then Bear bent down to take my thong (flip flop)  off to apply that to my back side.  Lastly came his delicious belt which felt so good. 

He stood me up asking is that to your satisfaction or would you like dessert with that?  Funny man!  He was very pleased with the colour he painted me.

A few words in my photo challenges lately have made me stop to think, also make sure I  engage my brain before posting.  Its amazing what TTWD does when you see things like stripes or daily as the prompts.  The things it conjures up.

Have a fun filled week stay cool in the northern hemisphere and warm in the southern with the change of seasons. 

Hugs Lindy and Bear xx

p.s. I've changed my privacy so I see comments before they're published as I've been hacked a few times in the past couple of weeks.  So if your comment doesn't appear straight away this is the reason.  x

Thursday, 16 March 2017

Day 16

After our bike rides this morning I waited standing naked in the bedroom for Bear to finish his shave, before having a shower.  He returned to the bedroom, saw me, had a huge grin on his face and picked up what he now refers to as the spank-a-plank.  (previously known as the cricket bat.) 

He said I was teasing him so pushed me down over the bed quickly applying a hard SPLAT to my left cheek,  OUCH!  I stood up doing a bit of a dance.  He told me to get back into position then SPLAT on the right cheek.  I said can you not do it so hard please as it really hurts,  I will last longer if you do it softer.  So then he started with tiny tap, tap, taps all over my bottom followed by a hard SPLAT!  Once again I did my little dance.  Down you go we're not finished yet SPLAT, SPLAT, SPLAT all on the same spot, before changing to the other cheek.  Finally he said its nicely glowing red and sent me off to the shower.

Wish I looked that good.

Of course I had to check it out in the mirror and sure enough it was very rosy.  I love the delicious sting in the shower, makes it feel really fabulous. 

Just before lunch time Bear pulled me in for a cuddle in the kitchen.  He put his hands down my pants feeling my bottom saying how pleased he was it still felt nice and warm.  During the day he kept giving me hard swats to make sure it stayed at the right redness and temperature.

Being Thursday its shopping day.  Leaving our supermarket heading back to the car its a down hill walk which I struggle with at times.  Bear is always saying I'll have to clip you onto the trolley as you're too slow.  Cheekily today I caught up to him telling him I'm clicked onto the trolley Daddy with a huge grin on my face.  He reached down to swat me in the carpark before we continued onto our car. Arriving home I received another spanking for my cheekiness. 

Does this count towards our six of the best?

Have a nice day/night everyone.  Hope you all have a Happy St Patricks Day tomorrow.  We're going out to lunch to celebrate.

Hugs Lindy and Bear xx


Happy Mothers Day to all those celebrating this Sunday.  I hope you're spoilt by your children and furkids.  Enjoy your day! ...