HELLO

Thought I better check in to let you know I'm still in the land of the living.  The winter BLUES have struck our house, its way too cold to do anything and my Bear is feeling depressed.

I had thought things weren't right for a while as he seemed to have lost interest in both spanking and making love.  He finally admitted to me he was feeling down.  Why do our HoHs expect us to talk about our problems, yet when it comes to them they keep it locked away inside? Although he has been retired for nearly two years now, he appears to be missing work and most importantly his work mates.  I know how he feels as it took me a good while to get over not working anymore and I still miss my workmates terribly.

So even though I've tried my hardest to interest him in a bit of action, there is naught happening. Hopefully when the weather starts to warm up a bit in spring he will be alright and ready for action. Until then I will keep visiting everyone's blogs to keep in touch with you all.

Hope you're all doing better with your summer time fun.

Hugs Lindy

One year blogiversary

 

 

Today, 16th July,  is  one year since I wrote  my first post and started blogging. Firstly I wrote a story for PK which was posted on 12th June, then she encouraged me to blog.  I was a bit hesitant to begin with as thought there is no way anyone would be interested in my life.

So I very carefully took the plunge and voila here I am 12 months later.  I've made so many wonderful friends through blogging, some of us email each other which is great.  Wish I lived closer to actually meet you all in person, maybe one day.  (I can only dream.)

There have been lots of ups and downs but that's life. Bear and I are closer as a result of TTWD, we have both stated that  we love each other more now.

So thank you all for being by my side and encouraging me when times became tough. Laughing with me in good times. Looking forward to many more years of friendship with you all.

So thank you PK for giving me the push I needed to start DOWNUNDER DREAMING, its been an awesome year.

Have a fantastic weekend everyone and stay safe.
Hugs Lindy and Bear
xxx

Our implements

PK had a post about all her implements and challenged us to add photos of ours.  I'm always up for a challenge so will take you up on that PK.  We don't have many as Bear seems to favour his hand more times than not.  Goodness knows why as he always says it hurts his hand and stops way too soon.  My favourite spanking is OTK with his hand when he plays the drums on my behind to a tune he hums,  always ends in us both in a fit of laughter.

Apart from this we have our bedroom spanking implements which are either used for fun or more serious spankings.  These are few and far between though as Bear thinks I'm good.  Haha!  My favourite out of these is the belt down the bottom.  My least favourite is what Bear calls the cricket bat which he made me write on.  He uses it like he's hitting a cricket ball and making runs. Can be fun if not too hard, which he tends to do more times than not.  He is either a soft spanker or full strength, nothing in between.

Then there's our kitchen implements which are on hand for a quick spanking if necessary over the  kitchen bench.  We did have some Teflon spatulas which unfortunately found their way into the rubbish recently.  No my doing, Bear through them away after one melted when he was doing a bbq.  I'm hoping the metal one follows them shortly also as that packs a nasty punch.

 

We did try to buy some implements online from overseas sites but the postage was way too much so Bear refused to buy them.  Unfortunately we haven't found anywhere within Australia so far to buy any.                                                                                                                                                       

 

Have a good week everyone

Hugs Lindy and Bear

                                                                                                                                                        

 

Time flies

Why does time go so fast when our daughter and grandson are visiting.  Only felt like they arrived, then packing up to head home again. We had a fabulous time although we didn't go anywhere. Our daughter is always exhausted, so catches up on sleep whilst we entertain little J. Not that he needs much entertaining as once he has his I pad that's it for the day.

As we couldn't get down for their birthdays, we celebrated with cakes on  arrival. Bear made both cakes, D1s from scratch which was so delicious and J's a packet mix.  J tried one crumb of his  cake declaring its not like mummy makes, so major fail with that one. Also I annoyed him taking photos all the time.  J was alright at first then it was "No more paparazzi Nanny."


We waved them off on their long journey home, cleaned the house and then NOTHING, ZILCH, NADA. Disappointment here BIG TIME!  I've been trying to poke the Bear to get some action happening, to no avail.  I've dropped hints for a spanking, then come right out saying I need a spanking.  Bear replies saying I'm a good girl though or he'll take me by surprise some time.  Almost feel like really playing up to get some attention.  Going out of my mind!  Strange isn't it,  I did everything possible to avoid a spanking when I was little, now I can't get enough. Yet my Bear won't play with me.  Boohoo!

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY

 

 

Happy Independence Day to all my American friends.  Enjoy you special day celebrating with family and friends.

Hugs Lindy

HAPPY CANADA DAY

Happy Canada Day to all my friends on blogger from over there.  Hope you all have a wonderful day to celebrate your countries special day.



Just letting everyone know we have D1 and little J visiting for a week.  Will be on if time allows to read everyone's posts.  Otherwise catch up at end of this coming week.

Enjoy your weekend and week.
Hugs Lindy

ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT

Not sure if I've received an attitude adjustment before and definitely didn't think I deserved this one.  What the HOH says the little wifey does, without a 'tude.

On Tuesday this week our club had their 5th birthday celebration which both Bear and I were attending.  At the last minute Bear decided he wasn't going as he doesn't really enjoy socialising.  Everyone attending had to make a certain food item, ours being carrot cake and cheese cake.  So on the morning I was busy making sure I had everything I needed packed in the car before I left home.

Went off had a good time, would have been way better with Bear by my side though.  The celebration included a 3 course meal plus plenty of desserts for afternoon tea.  I came home rather happy and not wanting to eat any dinner that night as I was so over full.

Sitting down with a cup of tea discussing the events, when Bear all of a sudden asked, what I'd taken out for dinner.  I explained how I wasn't eating and had forgotten to take anything out.  Wow, my usually sweet, calm Bear had a rant  amongst which he accused me of not being caring.  I was too flabbergasted to say anything just burst into tears like a baby. All my married life I've put Bear and the children first.  Never hesitating to go without myself and one tiny slip up gets me accused of being uncaring.  I realise Bear isn't feeling  100% but didn't think this was justified.  I did cook him a nice meal after all his fussing.

 

That night I went to bed early as I needed my space.  Wednesday I remembered to take meat out saying sarcastically don't want to be accused of being uncaring again.  Bear gave me THE LOOK as he wasn't very happy with my attitude.  The rest of the day the silence was deafening.  We haven't had a situation like this before as we don't normally fight. 

Today Bear had obviously had enough, so pulled a kitchen chair out and gave me an attitude adjustment I won't forget in a hurry.

 

Boy that man knows how to spank hard when he wants to, my poor bottom was  fire engine red and very sore by the time he finished.   Afterwards he pulled me into a cuddle, apologised for calling me uncaring,  yet said I deserved that spanking and had it coming for a while.  Pffft!   Who me, I'm usually a little angel. Peace has returned to our little house thank goodness, I hate having disagreements.  I know what you're all going to say DON'T POKE THE BEAR!