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Thank you my sweet friend that was so nice of you to update everyone, I really appreciate it.
I had my right wrist operation a month ago, which is slowly progressing. Apparently it will take 4 months to fully recover. In the meantime I have to go for an op on my stupid left wrist on 15th April. Argh! Didn't even have any symptoms until I had to fully rely on using it all the time. Boy did that come on fast.
During this recovery time I have been going stir crazy as I can't do anything AT ALL. Well that's not the truth. I can now shower, dry and dress myself. No housework or dinner preps, no driving so have to be chauffeured everywhere. What's a girl got to do around here!!!
We had our 40th wedding anniversary just after my right hand op and only managed this past week to go out to celebrate. My poor Mum would be having a fit to see how I have to hold my knife to cut my food. She was a stickler for doing everything properly.
Mr Spanky has been suffering with IPS, which he takes pleasure in giving me swats but no actual full on spankings. No action makes Lindy a naughty girl. This week I have been in trouble twice and trying to go for the trifecta. LOL!
I have learnt a valuable lesson that I must speak up for myself. Usually I'm the quiet mouse in the corner taking what ever is dished out to me. Bear has told me that has to stop as of now.
Feeling poorly lately I decided to go for a massage to try ease my aches and pains. Oh dear what a mistake! The girl asked me if I want a relaxation massage or deep tissue one. Thank goodness I asked for relaxation as it was TOTAL AGONY. I tried my hardest to relax and enjoy it BUT it was the worst experience I have had in ages. I tried to take my mind away from the pain by thinking up a story or taking myself to my happy place, the beach, nothing worked. I walked home feeling like I was going to pass out and just made it to bed. Everything was spinning and all didn't end well. Won't fill you in on those details. I finally felt better, sitting eating dinner I told Bear about what happened. He was furious with me, lecturing me about how I need to speak up for myself. Saying I should have told the girl half way through to stop I'd had enough. He made me stand up next to him and gave me several hard swats, which I deserved I admit.
Second incident happened the following day. I went out with a friend to celebrate her 10 years cancer free. We had planned on going to an Indian restaurant, unfortunately it was closed. I really had my taste buds ready for a yummy curry. So we ventured up to our usual restaurant, where she asked me what I wanted as it was her shout. I asked for a bacon and egg with gluten free bread toasted. This was my mistake I should have asked for a gf toastie as it came out bacon and eggs on toast. Oops!
On returning home Bear and I were standing in the kitchen kissing and cuddling as we do. He asked about lunch, went in for a big kiss. Then planted a double handed hard whammy on my tush which took my breath away. Once again saying I need to speak up for myself, my man knows how to keep me on my toes.
What's been happening in your next of the woods whilst I've been gone. Will be disappearing again for a while until I've recovered from my second op. Have you read any good books lately that you can recommend. I've been binge watching Netflix to fill in time, any good shows you like on there? Need something to keep me out of mischief.
We are off next weekend to catch up with our family at the half way stop. Feels like forever since I've seen them. Hoping the weather will be kind to us as our gathering is in a park.
Even though its two weeks away have a Happy Easter everyone. Stay safe on the roads and as I say to my family be good children! Hope the Easter bunny brings you something fun.
Hope to see you all in another month all going well.
Happy Easter from Bear and Lindy xx
Hi Lindy,
ReplyDeleteIt's so great to see you post! I have been thinking of you. Poor Bear with his IPS lol, sounds like he is finding ways to relieve it to some degree.
Oh no on the massage, you poor thing, how awful!
Happy belated Anniversary to you both! Wishing you all the best for your secon op and a speedy recovery.
Enjoy the family weekend next weekend and an early Happy Easter to you :)
Hugs
Roz
Sooo good to see you posting if only for a short while !! I have never had a massage (unless you count Sir Steve's massages) I just don't enjoy strange people touching me....... not sure after reading your bit about the massage that I ever will try one now (grinning)
ReplyDelete40 years!! WOW that is a milestone.... it's so nice to find couples that made it over the bumps in the road and kept on going... here's to 40 more years for you and Bear !!
Good luck on your next surgery (ugh can't believe you have to have another so soon!) and I'll be sitting here waiting to hear from you again.....
So nice to see you again! It must be more difficult thinking about the next surgery as you now know how frustrating it will be after. Good luck and hope to see you again sooner rather than later!
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Glad you are recovering nicely.
ReplyDeleteWe women are so used to 'sucking it up' that we rarely let loose because sometimes it's just easier, so I can appreciate your being silent in some situations. Glad Bear is swatting it out of you.
Have a wonderful visit with family and a Happy Easter to you too.
Good to hear from you, Lindy, sorry you have to have surgery on the other hand too. Shame about the bad massage; I have a combined facial and massage every month and it is bliss. Maybe try again somewhere else when you feel up to it?
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your family visit and have a Happy Easter.
Rosie xx
Lindy, it is so good to see you. Sorry that you have to have another surgery, hopefully it will not be as bad and that your right hand continues to mend quickly. The last massage I got was just like yours and thus I have never had another. I hope you have a Happy Easter, enjoy your vacation.
ReplyDeletethinking of you and sending hugs your way... :-)
ReplyDeleteSo glad to hear from you, Lindy Lou. When you are away I have to look at a map to be sure that the Land Down Under hasn't sunk into the sea. We miss you for sure. It has been medical issues for both Sam and myself that have kept me away, and I hate it.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about your wrists, but thank goodness that your Bear's wrists are in fine shape. Otherwise you would not have any attention paid to your bottom.
Sending Hugs Down Under,
Ella
Lindy, it is so good to see you on here. :) I hope the next operation goes well, and that the healing on the right hand speeds up so that you aren't left without any hands to use. :) But then, maybe it would help you learn to speak up. ;) Hmmm, good books. Do you like them without sex, or with? Know of a very few good DD ones without, and several good ones with, that you can skim over you if you don't like. :) I hope you are able to visit back once you are healed.
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So good to read here, late, but still. It is true. speaking up for myself is hard for me too. i *WAS* very proud of myself for telling the masseuse in Vietnam (while we were on holiday) that i had had enough. And similarly, she asked for a good review. Pfft. But BIKSS was there, so i kinda had added courage. It helps to know someone's in your corner.
ReplyDeleteI hope the recovery is coming along nicely, and that you have a great Easter with the folks!
Thank you Roz, Mornigstar, Willie, Sunny, Rosie, Blondie, Terps, Ella, Esmay and Fondles for your kind words. I really appreciate them all.
ReplyDeleteEsMay any good books at the moment. Going crazy not being able to do much whilst recovering.
Happy Easter
Lindy
I hope youre healing well!
ReplyDeleteOne show Sir and I watched recently on Netflix was Bonding. It's short, but interesting, especially for this thing we do!
Thank you Lea, slowly healing. I will look that show up.
DeleteHugs Lindy
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