I have a new friend, I'm excited as she is an Aussie. KANGA-JO wants a DD relationship which she has had previously, unfortunately had the wrong types, so once bitten, twice shy. So I am asking for her, where is it safe to look for a DOM?
Are there any Aussie DOMs reading my blog posts who can give some advice? Its not as if she can advertise in the paper...
Nice single lady looking for the right DOM to love and spank me.
Where does she go from here, would be great to be able to help with this situation and see her in a HAPPILY EVER AFTER relationship.
Wonder if there is a DOM out there like one of the characters in Corbin's Bend. HAVE PADDLE WILL TRAVEL! He could go around to keep all the ladies happy with a NICE ROSY, RED BOTTOM.
If we are lucky KANGA-JO might join us in the land. So lets all encourage her on a new adventure to find her DOM.
Hi Lindy,
ReplyDeleteSo glad you have met a fellow Aussie! A very warm welcome to Kanga-Jo, love the name! I hope we hear from her:) I'm sorry, I have no advice as to where to find a Dom.
Hugs
Roz
Thanks Roz, I hope someone has answers. It is fabulous to finally find an Aussie.
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I'd say the Dom pool in general is pretty small , so rather than look for a Dom she would be best to find a good , caring man and tell him the type of relationship she wants. If he loves her he'll go with it.Good luck to Kanga-jo!
ReplyDeleteThat is a very good point thank you Glenmore. A lot of us didn't start with a DOM, just asked our loving partners to indulge our needs.
DeleteHugs Lindy xx
I agree with Glenmore above. Find love first. There has to be a high degree of trust in a D/s relationship. Please let Kanga-jo know she is welcome!
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Ella
Thank you so much Ella, I will pass on your welcome to Kanga-Jo. Although I'm sure she will pop in here to read all the replies.
DeleteHugs Lindy xx
My wife did not say she wanted a Dom, but just wanted a old fashion husband. The first time I said we need to talk in the bedroom, she replied at my age. Age does not matter, it was her attitude towards some good friends. That first spanking got her attention, she knew I meant business. I told her as she was rubbing she wanted an old fashion husband and that I was such and that she better get use to a spanking. It was along time before her Mother found out. She hugged me and said finally my spoiled little child has meant her Daddy. I was shocked, shortly afterwards she gave me a nice large hairbrush.
ReplyDeleteSounds like your wife got what she needed. Oh my goodness your M.I.L. giving you a hairbrush for her daughter cracks me up. Maybe she desires a spanking also.
DeleteThank you for your reply.
Hugs Lindy xx
I have thought about it, she has made comments but being my M.I.L. don't know if I should do it. I will when I was dating, I did date a woman in her 60's and I did give her a spanking, not foreplay, punishment, attitude. Over my lap she acted just like a naughty little girl and really protested when I not only pulled her panties down, but off and then made her face the wall. So it could happen, there are times, will see.
DeleteI don't believe there is anything wrong with searching for a partner who is a Dom from the onset. If your friend identifies with being a submissive, it isn't any different ( in my opinion) than searching for someone with the same religious beliefs etc.. Just because they know they both NEED D/s doesn't mean they have to start out the second they meet each other. Lots of very productive/loving relationships have started out knowing the other is D/s.
ReplyDeleteThere are actually D/s dating sights out there. I know a very good friend of mine met her husband on a Christian Dd website, even though neither identify themselves as CDD. They have been together for over 12 years. It isn't any different than a regular online dating site.
Many of us did bring this to our partners and have thrived, but many have brought this to their partners and it didn't work. Why not start out knowing you are both on the same page?
Good luck AussieJo!
willie
Thank you Willie. That's what Kanga is hoping for, a short cut to finding a loving HOH.
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Hey Lindy, thanks for the post and thanks to all who have commented. I agree in that the most important thing is a love connection before a hand connection 🤣🤣 but both would be nice. Hoping to get the blog up and running soon. Stay tuned...
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome Kanga. Hope you find both the love and hand connection. LOL!
DeleteHugs Lindy xx
Have you tried FetLife?
ReplyDeleteLook for local munches/public kink events and go from there.
Have you tried browsing through here? (its old, but might lead you somewhere) http://findamunch.com/category/locations/australia/
Cheers to new friends!
Thanks for the advice Bleue. She has tried Fetlife, but I'm sure she appreciated this.
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Hi, Yes I have tried fetlife and have a profile on there.
DeleteThanks for the info Bleue :)
It's been so long since I have even dated I wouldn't know where to start. There are all kind of dating apps where one can find someone who has similar interests.... Welcome Kanga-Jo!
ReplyDeleteSame here Blondie, many moons since I've dated. So hopefully Kanga can find someone to suit her needs.
DeleteHugs Lindy xx
Thanks Blondie, I'm on a few dating sites so you never know! :D
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ReplyDeleteI found my Sir on a kink dating website: bdsmsingles.com
ReplyDeleteI would be upfront about what you want. You're going to have to wade through online creeps. When I did meet Sir for the first time, I did so in public and had a couple of safety calls set up.
I thought it was a real longshot, but it has worked out. 8.5 years later and we're engaged to be married!
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