Wednesday, 9 March 2016

Answers to Don's, Ella's and Amy's questions

Don asks.........Do you and Bear talk about what he gets out of spanking; what is his reward?


Thank you for your questions Don......Yes we often talk about what Bear gets out of spanking me.  It really depends on his mood.  Sometimes Bear isn't in the mood to give me a spanking but does anyway, gets it over with and that's the end.  At those times it seems he only does it for my benefit as he likes to see me happy.

Other times he surprises me by coming up whilst I'm doing something, bends me over and spanks away.  He gets a kick out of seeing my bottom turning red when he's in these moods.  Then one thing leads to another and we do our special dance.

His reward would be
HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE.




Bear would do absolutely anything to see me happy and I really appreciate it and likewise do the same for him.  We are soulmates and best friends.












Ella asks............ Was spanking your idea or Bear's?
When one of you brought up the idea, what was the other's reaction?


Thank you for your questions Ella.......Shortly after we became engaged something happened so we made a bet with each other.  I told Bear if I win he could spank me,  I can't remember what he wanted if he won.  He obviously liked that idea as he didn't wait for the result.  Took me over his knee straight away and that was my first spanking. 

So I guess the answer to your second question, it must have excited Bear seeing he spanked then and there.  It is a very long time ago as I was 22, so hard to think back that far.

We often make bets with each other now.  Bears version if I'm right I get spanked,  if he's right I get spanked.  So its a win-win situation for me.  LOL! 



Amy asks......I was curious if adult spanking is something that is readily accepted in Australia or if it is something that you hide between Bear and you. I don't think you live there anymore. What about where you are now? Amy


Thank you for you question Amy.  Unfortunately spanking doesn't seem to be something readily accepted here in Australia.  Bear and I never talk to anyone else about it as we are worried what their opinion would be.  I only know a small number of people down here  who do talk about it and they are  fellow bloggers anyway.

It's a pity it isn't spoken about more as really it's nothing to be ashamed about.  Every couple is different and what works for one couple is totally different to what works for another. Is it something more out in the open where you live Amy or only amongst our blog friends?  We still live in Australia, just moved from S.E. Victoria to S.W. Victoria which is 500kms from our old home town.



Thank you all for your questions, its been fun answering them.  Still time if anyone else has a question.



Good news Bear is slowly improving and his results from the doctor are fairly good.  He does have low white blood cells which could just mean he has been in contact with a virus.  The doctor suggested doing scopes but Bear, being Bear  said no.  If it happens again though there will have to be further investigations.  My main worry is he has lost so much weight without even trying.  So I still think something is going on.





Anyway tomorrow is our 37th wedding anniversary.  We've had to postpone our celebrations due to Bear being sick but hopefully we will have a lovely day anyway.  I told him the main thing is we are together




Enjoy the rest of your week everyone.

Hugs Lindy and Bear



16 comments:

  1. Happy anniversary! Glad your Bear is doing better, hope that continues. Master and i make those same kind of bets..it is a win/win!
    hugs abby

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    1. Thanks Abby for your anniversary wishes. It is so fun making these bets. We always end up in laughter during the spanking.
      Hugs Lindy

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  2. Loved hearing your answers, Lindy. And hearing that Bear is doing better. Men are very stubborn when they are sick.

    We have never made bets, but it sounds like fun. Will have to think of something on which to bet.

    Happy Anniversary Downunder, Mate!
    Ella

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    1. Thanks for the anniversary wishes Ella. Yes you and Sam should definitely start making bets with a win/win on your part. So much fun!
      Hugs Lindy

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  3. Happy Anniversary to you two lovebirds.

    Hope Bear continues to get better and that white cell count improves.

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    1. Thanks for your anniversary wishes Sunny. Fingers and toes crossed Bear makes a full recovery quickly.
      Hugs Lindy

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  4. Happy Anniversary to you both. I am glad Bear is a bit better, still think he needs a bit more looking at though. Nice answers. I think my husband feels just like yours about the spanking,
    love Jan,xx

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    1. Thanks for your anniversary wishes Jan. John and Bear do seem to be similar in their views.

      I also think Bear needs further investigation but he is stubborn. Hopefully he makes a full recovery before too long.
      Hope you are resting up and doing everything for your own recovery.
      Hugs Lindy

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  5. Hi Lindy, thanks for the answer and Happy Anniversary. It sure is funny with us mens types...most of the time we grizzle and grump about the most trivial of health complaints such as "man flu" but when we are sick and don't say a word it must be serious. Hope Bear completely recovers soonest. Betting using the win/win method sounds excellent; must give it a try

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    1. Thanks for the anniversary wishes Don.

      Hope my answer to your question was satisfactory.

      Yes what is it with makes refusing medical treatment? Maybe you can tell us being a male. LOL!
      You and Mumski should try betting with a win/win prize.

      Hope you are improving also and your medical team are still happy with your progress.
      Hugs Lindy

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  6. Hi! Happy Anniversary!!!
    I am glad Bear is feeling better! Hope he follows up with doc if he doesn't feel 100%!
    I missed asking a question! Bummer!
    I enjoy all the answers however!

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    1. Thanks Minelle for you anniversary wishes.
      You're never too late if you want to still ask a question. Doesn't it go until the end of March?
      Hugs Lindy

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  7. Thanks for sharing your answers, Lindy. So very happy to hear that Bear is getting better...sending lots of prayers and healing energy that he continues to improve. Happy belated Anniversary!

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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    1. Thanks Cat for sending healing energy to my Bear. We had a nice relaxing day just enjoying each others company for our anniversary.
      Hugs Lindy

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  8. I love the story of your first spanking. You are so right about every couple being different and what works for one might night work for another...wish there was more acceptance and tolerance in the world. Hope you had a wonderful anniversary. Hugs

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    1. Thanks Terps. It is a pity spanking is more accepted. We had a nice quiet anniversary. Was nice just spending the day together.
      Hugs Lindy

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