Answers to Don's, Ella's and Amy's questions

Don asks.........Do you and Bear talk about what he gets out of spanking; what is his reward?


Thank you for your questions Don......Yes we often talk about what Bear gets out of spanking me.  It really depends on his mood.  Sometimes Bear isn't in the mood to give me a spanking but does anyway, gets it over with and that's the end.  At those times it seems he only does it for my benefit as he likes to see me happy.

Other times he surprises me by coming up whilst I'm doing something, bends me over and spanks away.  He gets a kick out of seeing my bottom turning red when he's in these moods.  Then one thing leads to another and we do our special dance.

His reward would be
HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE.

Bear would do absolutely anything to see me happy and I really appreciate it and likewise do the same for him.  We are soulmates and best friends.

Ella asks............ Was spanking your idea or Bear's?
When one of you brought up the idea, what was the other's reaction?

Thank you for your questions Ella.......Shortly after we became engaged something happened so we made a bet with each other.  I told Bear if I win he could spank me,  I can't remember what he wanted if he won.  He obviously liked that idea as he didn't wait for the result.  Took me over his knee straight away and that was my first spanking. 

So I guess the answer to your second question, it must have excited Bear seeing he spanked then and there.  It is a very long time ago as I was 22, so hard to think back that far.

We often make bets with each other now.  Bears version if I'm right I get spanked,  if he's right I get spanked.  So its a win-win situation for me.  LOL! 

Amy asks......I was curious if adult spanking is something that is readily accepted in Australia or if it is something that you hide between Bear and you. I don't think you live there anymore. What about where you are now? Amy


Thank you for you question Amy.  Unfortunately spanking doesn't seem to be something readily accepted here in Australia.  Bear and I never talk to anyone else about it as we are worried what their opinion would be.  I only know a small number of people down here  who do talk about it and they are  fellow bloggers anyway.

It's a pity it isn't spoken about more as really it's nothing to be ashamed about.  Every couple is different and what works for one couple is totally different to what works for another. Is it something more out in the open where you live Amy or only amongst our blog friends?  We still live in Australia, just moved from S.E. Victoria to S.W. Victoria which is 500kms from our old home town.



Thank you all for your questions, its been fun answering them.  Still time if anyone else has a question.



Good news Bear is slowly improving and his results from the doctor are fairly good.  He does have low white blood cells which could just mean he has been in contact with a virus.  The doctor suggested doing scopes but Bear, being Bear  said no.  If it happens again though there will have to be further investigations.  My main worry is he has lost so much weight without even trying.  So I still think something is going on.

Anyway tomorrow is our 37th wedding anniversary.  We've had to postpone our celebrations due to Bear being sick but hopefully we will have a lovely day anyway.  I told him the main thing is we are together

Enjoy the rest of your week everyone.

Hugs Lindy and Bear