Wednesday, 28 March 2018

OLIVIA ASKS A VERY INTERESTING QUESTION

Olivia asks when did you first know that you were into kink? How did you realize it? Is there a story that goes with that?

From a very young age, I've had what I thought was a weird feeling of wanting to be spanked.  I was spanked as a child by my dad, which I hated.  Yet this yearning was something different. When Bear and I first met we made a bet.  If I won he would spank me and if he won well.........



Anyway that was my first spanking in our relationship.  We both enjoyed it and continued until our children came along.  Bear would have still spanked then also, only I was worried about the noise factor.  So it was put on hold until we moved to our new house.


Our son, dil and grandchildren came to visit not long after moving here.  Dil was going on about a disgusting book all her friends were reading which they asked her to read also.  This piqued my interest so much, that Bear took me to our local library to borrow the books. Boy was that an eye opener for me.



One night Bear was in his music room playing his instrument and I was curled up on the couch reading FSOG in the lounge room.  I read all the books and voila!  I discussed my need to be spanked again to Bear.  Although we had indulged earlier in our marriage he was like No way I can't hurt you. So he did a bit of research himself, finding many blogs after typing in the word SPANK on google.
Up until this point I thought I was the only one who loved to be spanked. Was I crazy, what is wrong with me? Then it opened up a whole new world, when I found everyone's blogs and realised there are others with the same craving so to speak.



We mainly do TTWD for fun so haven't got into anything too heavy. I would like to try many others things, unfortunately I can't persuade my Bear to try them though. He is a very gentle man, so is hesitant. TTWD has made us closer like newly weds again, we are both loving the effects.

Thank you for your question Olivia, it was fun to answer. 

Hugs Lindy xx

18 comments:

  1. Hi Lindy, Pretty much the same here.....
    love Jan, xx

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    1. Hi Jan, I think a lot of us have the same beginnings. You also do it for fun like us.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  2. Hi Lindy,

    I enjoyed reading your answer to this. The fascination with spanking began at an early age for me too.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thank you Roz. I wonder what makes us fascinated by it. I remember my dad spanking me and it wasn't fun at all. Weird!
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  3. So different for me....first school I taught in..rural Maine school, allowed spanking..I was aghast. Much later in my life, I discovered my interest by reading books also.....hugs abby

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    1. Good to hear your start into spanking Abby. Corporal punishment is not allowed in schools in Australia. sometimes I think they should use it with some kids these days.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  4. Joe, I had the desire at a young age, the urge grew stronger as I got older. I found I enjoyed dating older women, and with Joyce I finally opened up my desire. She understood, but it was not until a week or so later, she brought up spankings. She smiled and said my attitude has earned a spanking. It was great and also hurt, she applied a spanking, using her words, that naughty little boys get. Well she introduced me to her best friend daughter, my age. We started to date and a month into the dating, she knew of my desire. Well we have been married for five years, spankings a part, punishment only. They hurt and the reminder last a long time, over the knee, hairbrush, bare bottom, corner time, and she could care less of someone drops in and sees me in the corner. Joyce even gave her a nice hairbrush just for spankings.

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    1. Thanks for visiting Joe. Good to hear about your interesting start into spanking. Please visit again some time.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  5. Lindy, I loved hearing your "Chapter One" story. With a name like Bear, it was surprising to know that he is so gentle. You are a lucky woman.

    Funny, but I never read FSOG until after I finally opened up to Sam.

    Sending Hugs Down Under,
    Ella

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    1. Thank you Ella. Yes my Bear is gentle and cuddly, although not as big as what he used to be.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  6. Lindy,
    I loved walking down memory lane with you. Many of the things you said have happened here as well.
    Meredith

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    1. Thank you Meredith, we do seem to have a lot in common.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  7. I think EL James deserves a statue, don't you. She has really changed so many people's lives for the better.

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    1. I totally agree Sunny about EL James needing a statue. I wonder if she realises how she has changed so many couples.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  8. oh..Lindy thank-you for sharing. I loved how it kinda sorta started before the kids and resumed after (I need all those stories right now, lol).

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    1. Glad I could help you Bleue. Hope you can work it all out.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  9. glad you are feeling the loving affects of TTWD

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    1. It is wonderful, thank you Terps.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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