SPRING IN HIS STEP AND IPS

It's a miracle! After meeting Kanga Jo, Bear seems to have a spring in his step at last.

He has been  suffering with IPS (itchy palm syndrome). Every opportunity he found I was on the receiving end of hard swats. Now I think I've told you before Bear never spanks lightly,  that also applies to his swats. His hand is like a paddle when applied to my derriere.

We had made soup in the slow cooker for Wednesday night, the day we met Kanga. Will diverge a bit first. I was making potato and leek soup, Bear decided it would be nice with a tin of tomatoes in it. Let me tell you DO NOT  alter the recipe, blergh, it was revolting.  Thursday morning said soup was tossed in the rubbish bin, slow cooker washed and I was attempting to put it away. For some reason it lives up the top of our linen cupboard, which is silly as it is so heavy.

To be able to put it away I had to climb the kitchen step ladder,  Bear always has fun when I'm up on this. He handed me the slow cooker which I struggled to lift up to the top shelf. Whilst doing so, he whipped my jeans and knickers down to apply sharp swats to my unprotected tushy. Mind you where this cupboard is situated is a huge glass window, so both the back neighbours who are in a two storey house and our side neighbours could have seen our shenanigans.

THWHACK...OUCH...GIGGLE.....WHACK...OUCH....GIGGLE.....WHACK

By the time I had managed between fits of giggles to place the slow cooker away my tushy was stinging. I think Bear applied at least 12 or more HARD swats.

During the afternoon every time I passed him I copped a swat or two.

After dinner I was rinsing the dishes ready to stack the dish washer, when Bear grabbed me from behind for a cuddle. He then had the brilliant idea we should christen Kanga's brush, as I mentioned she gifted him in my previous post.

No warm up or anything. Up with my nightie and dressing gown, bent me over the kitchen chair  and away he went enjoying every moment.

Wallop... ouch... Kanga said to do it softly.

What's the fun in that?

Wallop   ...ouch too hard

Little tappy tappies please.

Yeah right no such thing in Bears books. Wallop.....whack......ouch.
Bear commented on how nice and red my tush was looking all the time applying one whack after the other.

Kanga I honestly don't know how you think the bamboo brush  is nice. I can testify in my mans hands nothing is nice. LOL!

Yesterday I went out with some friends to a photo exhibition, on our return I invited them in for a coffee. Then spotted the brush on the table where Bear had left it. Luckily it has multiple uses, not like the time the canes were left out. OOPS! We need to be more careful. LOL!

Enjoy your weekend everyone. 
Hugs Lindy xx

finally met a blogger.

Over the past 4 years I must admit, I've been a green eyed monster being so envious, when all you bloggers managed to meet up for holidays or a day together here and there.

Well at long last my dream has come true. Today I met an actual blogger in person. Yay!  I've found my own Aussie blog friend.

Thanks to Baker who introduced us, Kanga Jo and I became good friends on face book. We decided to take the risk and meet up. Kango Jo set off on a long trek from her home town on a mission to find a suitable HoH also to meet Bear and I along the way. As you would have seen on her blog she found some funny signs on her trip, are these omens, do you think?  

Today was THE day, Bear and I drove a short distance to meet our friend. Firstly we arranged to meet for lunch, which went so well. Our meals were delicious and we chatted the whole time. We exchanged gifts, Bear is now the proud owner of a wooden brush.....EEEKKKK! 

Then did a bit of retail therapy, well a girls got to hit the shops, right!

 Afterwards we went whale hunting down the beach.  Unfortunately no whales, but it was so invigorating with the salty sea breeze blowing in our faces. 

As Baker was so kind to introduce us I took a photo of her along, which we included in plenty of our selfies. 

Hope you enjoyed the day as much as us Baker.

It was soon time to say our good byes so Kanga Jo could continue on her hunt for a HoH. Good luck with that, hope you find one somewhere.  Looking forward to meeting up another time. Thanks so much for travelling all this way to meet us, we appreciate it.  The day went way too fast, as it usually does when you're having fun.

Hugs Lindy and Bear xx

New friend in blogland

Hello everyone,

Just letting you know my fellow Aussie Kanga-Jo has launched her first post. So go on over to

https://kangajovictoria2019.blogspot.com/?zx=a127754df3097b61
and say hello to her and give her a bit of encouragement. Its so exciting having another blogger from downunder. Hugs Lindy xx

FINDING A GOOD DOM

Most of us are lucky to be in long term loving relationships with our spanky men. Therefore how would you advise someone where to look for a nice DOM.

I have a new friend,  I'm excited  as she is an Aussie. KANGA-JO  wants a DD relationship which she has had previously, unfortunately had the wrong types, so once bitten, twice shy. So I am asking for her, where is it safe to look for a DOM?

Are there any Aussie DOMs reading my blog posts who can give some advice?  Its not as if she can advertise in the paper...

Nice single lady looking for the right DOM to love and spank me.

Where does she go from here, would be great to be able to help with this situation and see her in a HAPPILY EVER AFTER  relationship.

Wonder if there is a DOM out there like one of the characters in Corbin's Bend. HAVE PADDLE WILL TRAVEL!  He could go around to keep all the ladies happy with a NICE ROSY, RED BOTTOM. 

If we are lucky KANGA-JO might join us in the land. So lets all encourage her  on a new adventure to find her DOM. 

forth blogiversary

Hello all you wonderful people. Its been over three months since I've visited the land for one reason or another. Then I forgot my password, OOPS!  How have you all been?  

Things have changed dramatically here. Bear still leads, I still follow BUT sadly there is no spanky business. We are still happy though and getting on like before.

During the time I've been absent we have had Easter, I am a year older and it was my blogiversary. Can't really believe I've been part of this fabulous community for four years now. I am grateful for all the friendships I've made during that time. Even though I haven't popped in too much over the past year, you've all stuck by me. thank you!

This calls for a celebration with some cake of course and a nice hot cup of tea. 

Or perhaps pink champagne.

Also some nice teasers for you all to enjoy.

Lets hope there's plenty more years of Downunder Dreaming to come, with  our spanky mojo back.

Cheers
Bear and Lindy xx

MR SPANKY AND HIS ITCHY PALM SYNDROME

Hello lovely friends, its been ages since I have visited the land. Thank you all for your wonderful comments both on my last post and over at Bakers.

http://oursweetapproach.blogspot.com/2019/03/update-on-lindy-lou.html?zx=e4739a8cf01485ec

Thank you my sweet friend that was so nice of you to update everyone, I really appreciate it.

 I had my right wrist operation a month ago, which is slowly progressing. Apparently it will take 4 months to fully recover. In the meantime I have to go for an op on my stupid left wrist on 15th April. Argh! Didn't even have any symptoms until I had to fully rely on using it all the time. Boy did that come on fast.

During this recovery time I have been going stir crazy as I can't do anything AT ALL. Well that's not the truth. I can now shower, dry and dress myself. No housework or dinner preps, no driving so have to be chauffeured everywhere. What's a girl got to do around here!!!

We had our 40th wedding anniversary just after my right hand op and only managed this past week to go out to celebrate. My poor Mum would be having a fit to see how I have to hold my knife to cut my food. She was a stickler for doing everything properly.

Mr Spanky has  been suffering with IPS, which he takes pleasure in giving me swats but no actual full on spankings. No action makes Lindy a naughty girl. This week I have been in trouble twice and trying to go for the trifecta. LOL!

I have learnt a valuable lesson  that I must speak up for myself. Usually I'm the quiet mouse in the corner taking what ever is dished out to me. Bear has told me that has to stop as of now.

Feeling poorly lately I decided to go  for a massage to try ease my aches and pains. Oh dear what a mistake!  The girl asked me if I want a relaxation massage or deep tissue one. Thank goodness I asked for relaxation as it was TOTAL AGONY. I tried my hardest to relax and enjoy it BUT it was the worst experience I have had in ages.  I tried to take my mind away from the pain by thinking up a story or taking myself to my happy place, the beach, nothing worked.   I walked home feeling like I was going to pass out and just made it to bed. Everything was spinning and all didn't end well.  Won't fill you in on those details.  I finally felt better, sitting eating dinner I told Bear about what happened. He was furious with me, lecturing me about how I need to speak up for myself. Saying I should have told the girl half way through to stop I'd had enough. He made me stand up next to him and gave me several hard swats, which I deserved I admit.

Then we continued on with our meal. I had so much trouble sleeping that night with all the pain. Yet the girl asked me to give her a good review on her page. Pffft!

Second incident happened the following day.  I went out with a friend to celebrate her 10 years cancer free. We had planned on going to an Indian restaurant, unfortunately it was closed. I really had my taste buds ready for a yummy curry. So we ventured up to our usual restaurant, where she asked me what I wanted as it was her shout. I asked for a bacon and egg with gluten free bread toasted.   This was my mistake I should have asked for a gf toastie as it came out bacon and eggs on toast.  Oops!

On returning home Bear and I were standing in the kitchen kissing and cuddling as we do. He asked about lunch, went in for a big kiss. Then planted a double handed hard whammy on my tush which took my breath away. Once again saying I need to speak up for myself, my man knows how to keep me on my toes.

What's been happening in your next of the woods whilst I've been gone. Will be disappearing again for a while until I've recovered from my second op.  Have you read any good books lately that you can recommend. I've been binge watching Netflix to fill in time, any good shows you like on there? Need something to keep me out of mischief.

We are off next weekend to catch up with our family at the half way stop. Feels like forever since I've seen them. Hoping the weather will be kind to us as our gathering is in a park.

Even though its two weeks away have a Happy Easter everyone. Stay safe on the roads and as I say to my family be good children! Hope the Easter bunny brings you something fun.

Hope to see you all in another month all going well.

Happy Easter from Bear and Lindy xx

taking a break

I know I wrote recently about friends disappearing from the land. So thought I'd pop in to tell you I'm taking a break also. 

Things are difficult here at the moment, so not much action happening. I don't want to turn this into a pity party writing about our health problems. 

Anyway I'm having a smallish operation in March, hopefully after I've healed I can pop back in again to chat. In the mean time for those of you who know me on face book I'll still be doing my photos. If you want to keep  in touch either email me or catch up on FB. Although it might take me a bit to type out a reply. 

Good bye for now. 
Hugs Lindy xx