Sunday, 28 January 2018


Our wonderful Friend Fondles is hosting Fit for Friday.  What a Fantastic idea, I am really looking forward to getting involved , making better decisions about food, fitness and Fun, Fun, Fun.

Who hasn't hoped on their scales and had them groan at you.

I used to have another blog where I went out for a Friday Frolic in Flossie which is my daughters car.  Now I'm about to embark on Fondles Fit for Friday Frolic

Who wants to join in all the Fun. Its not a competition, its self regulated to what you need in your life.

No one is going to judge you because you slipt up and ate something naughty. We just all encourage each other and exchange ideas on ways to a healthier life.  So  there  is nothing to lose except a few kilos whilst getting Fit.

Also think of the advantages of having a nice spankable butt.

So Fly over  to Fondles post regarding FFF and sign up for some fun with the rest of us.

Friday, 26 January 2018


Happy Australia Day to my fellow Aussie bloggers. I know back on love our lurkers day a few of you ventured out to say G'day.

Seriously with a continent the size of Australia  7.692 million km² and a population of  24,931,182  people there has to be more spankos living in this sunny land besides Don and myself.

So C'mon Aussie C'mon C'mon

Hope you all enjoy celebrating our special day with a bbq with family and friends. Some delicious bbq lamb followed by a lamington or pavlova, what more could an Aussie ask for?  My Bear has made me some delicious gluten free lamingtons.


Maybe a bit of beach cricket.

Sipping a cold drink under a beach umbrella

My Country - Poem by Dorothea Mackeller
The love of field and coppice
Of green and shaded lanes,
Of ordered woods and gardens
Is running in your veins.
Strong love of grey-blue distance,
Brown streams and soft, dim skies
I know, but cannot share it,
My love is otherwise.

I love a sunburnt country,
A land of sweeping plains,
Of ragged mountain ranges,
Of droughts and flooding rains.
I love her far horizons,
I love her jewel-sea,
Her beauty and her terror
The wide brown land for me!

The stark white ring-barked forests,
All tragic to the moon,
The sapphire-misted mountains,
The hot gold hush of noon,
Green tangle of the brushes
Where lithe lianas coil,
And orchids deck the tree-tops,
And ferns the warm dark soil.

Core of my heart, my country!
Her pitiless blue sky,
When, sick at heart, around us
We see the cattle die
But then the grey clouds gather,
And we can bless again
The drumming of an army,
The steady soaking rain.

Core of my heart, my country!
Land of the rainbow gold,
For flood and fire and famine
She pays us back threefold.
Over the thirsty paddocks,
Watch, after many days,
The filmy veil of greenness
That thickens as we gaze ...

An opal-hearted country,
A wilful, lavish land
All you who have not loved her,
You will not understand
though Earth holds many splendours,
Wherever I may die,
I know to what brown country
My homing thoughts will fly.


One of my favourite songs Peter Allen  'I still call Australia home.'

And another favourite 'Straya

So don't be shy I would love to meet all you Aussie spankos. Its not that hard to say G'day to me is it?

Saturday, 20 January 2018


I don't usually have to run my posts past Bear for approval. Discussing my latest post 'LETS TALK ABOUT SEX BABY' and some reactions, he thinks I've over stepped the fine line.

So I'm really sorry, I'll stick to the subject from now on.  In light of this I am getting a spanking for being a naughty girl.

The ginger paddle and his belt will be coming out of our toy box at bed time. So please accept my apology.

Hugs Lindy xx

Friday, 19 January 2018


Bet that  got your attention hey? 

Going outside my comfort zone here, just thought this was interesting and maybe you will also.

Weeeellllll   after a  conversation with a blogger  friend recently about sex toys, I learnt something new......... Yep never too old to learn new things. 

Bears and my  experience is very limited, we did have a vibrator when we were first married, almost 39 years ago, neither of us liked it.  Yes they did have vibrators in the dinosaur era.  I googled it to see when vibrators were first invented and it was in the 19th century. Apart from this the only toys we have are of the spanking variety and one dress up type.

 Did you know ben wa balls can help pelvic floor muscles? It was a total surprise to me, I thought they were just to enhance your sex experience.  Read the following article   The Ultimate Beginners Guide to Ben Wa Balls.

So   I shared this piece of information with my girls as we can MOSTLY talk about anything together.  Especially now they know their mum and dad are spankos.

Do you have any toys of interest?  Maybe you can teach me some interesting facts about them also. Look forward to learning some more  from you all.

Sunday, 14 January 2018


Baker posted these interesting questions for us all to ponder. I've often thought about this too, so will be interested to see everyone's response.

1.  Are you an introvert or extrovert or somewhere in between?  What about your HOH? 


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After seeing your comparison between an introvert and an extrovert on the chart, I'm rather confused.  I would definitely describe myself as an introvert. Yet I'm a bit of a mix. I don't like my own company, much prefer to be with Bear. I tend to dive in without thinking before I talk which has got me in trouble on occasion. I love, love, love surprises. I do like public acknowledgement and I am a team worker. Also in some situations in the past where I've had to go in fancy dress I've lapped up all the attention. So I am an inextrovert. LOL!  New word for the dictionary.

Bear also is a mix.  He can talk til the cows come in with anyone, yet prefers his own company (except for me). He hates surprises and public acknowledgement. He is a fabulous speaker if he  is interested in the subject and has such a good memory.  He is sort of a team worker but prefers to work alone. So is he an introvert or an extrovert, the jury is out on that one.

2.  At what age did you realize that spanking was something you were into and at what length did you go to hide it?  Did your HOH know?  For those of you who began your marriage with spanking do you think anything from your childhood help you be more accepting of the spanking lifestyle.

I was spanked by my dad as a child, which I hated,  so if I was in trouble I was really scared of the consequences. Yet somewhere along the line spanking became a fantasy, I can't quite remember when it went from one stage to the other. It was something I kept a secret as I wondered what was wrong with me. When we first married Bear used to spank me, which went by the way side when the children arrived, due to no privacy.  We were co-sleepers until our kids were old enough for their own beds. So once Bear retired we started again especially after reading FSOG. The rest is history.

3.  Do you know of anyone else in your family who practices DD, TTWD, etc.?  And how did you come to learn that they did?

I have my suspicions of my eldest sister and bil. She is very submissive for starters.  Secondly we were in a café with them one day when the waitress did something.  My bil said she deserves a spanking, Bear and I looked at each other with that knowing look.  It was so  embarrassing,  as we felt sorry for the waitress.
Bear has always thought my second sister would be a DOMME as she clicks her fingers and bil does what she says.
I know my daughters aren't into DD/TTWD as we have had a very extensive conversation recently. D1 worked out what we do, so we were talking in codes and D2 wanted to know what was going on.  So I spilt the beans explaining our life style.  They both said they didn't like to be spanked, D2 actually said she would spank her man though. 
I was surprised as I thought D2s partner was a DOM in many ways.  

4.  Are you a homebody or outgoing?

I enjoy going out with Bear by my side, he tends to make me more confident.  I do go out with my photography friends once a month, apart from that I'm a home body. Always love pottering around the house doing things or relaxing.

5.  How do you view blogging?  Is it an outlet?  A way you process?

Blogging has been a great way for me to write my thoughts down to share with others.  I've made so many wonderful friends this way, with like minded people.  Sometimes it feels like I've known everyone forever and not just for four years. I was totally surprised when I came across all these blogs,  I was convinced I was the only CRAZY one in the whole world wanting to be spanked. So its a relief to know others in my situation. AND we are not crazy after all. So blogging is a way of learning new ideas.

6.  What tendencies do you see in your DD or TTWD friends and bloggers?  

We all seem to be a lot happier since we've incorporated TTWD/DD into our relationships.  One thing that stands out, we are all really close to our husbands/partners and love to make him/her happy. So even though we all come from different backgrounds, we have this in common.

7.  Are you a lover of the printed word?

I do love reading books NOW,  funnily I never used to be a fan though.  I'm a slow reader as I find it helps me take it in easier. So up until I read FSOG I hated reading, then a miracle happened and I can't read enough books. Bear enjoyed the benefits that went with these books, so bought me a kobo with several similar books to read.   My sisters used to recommend vanilla books for me to read before this, which were nice books, they just didn't hold my interest.  So does this say something about me......maybe! 

8.  Do you view yourself as a submissive?

Yes I
view myself as submissive and so does Bear.  I guess it depends on ones definition of submissive.  Bear says I've always gone out of my way to make him happy and put him first. A lot of his work mates wives didn't do a thing for them. We do discuss things all the time, yet I leave the final decision to Bear.

9.  Last question.  What traits do you see in your HOH that help you follow his lead?

Bear has stepped up more over the past 4 years in his HOHINESS.  As I said above he makes the final decisions, so I am happy for him to take the pressure off me that way. 
We mainly do TTWD for fun, there are times though where he will have a certain look or tone to his voice. I love to keep him happy, so I'd do anything for him. Then in turn he spoils me to bits.

Thanks so much for these questions, they made me think a lot. 

Hugs Lindy xx


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