Wednesday, 25 May 2016


Oh dear I lost the bet, the item arrived today Wednesday.

 So I owe Bear his prize.....but I had an unexpected prize on the side.  My oh my I thought the wooden and plastic spatulas hurt.  Have you ever been on the receiving end of a metal spatula?


Bear was preparing chicken fillets to bbq whilst I chopped the vegetables.  He took out the lethal metal spatula from the draw and walloped my behind.  Ouch, ouch, ouch is all I can say,  it hurt so bad.  Looks like Bear has found himself a new spanking implement, so I better be a good girl from now on.  Hopefully this doesn't pay too many trips to my poor behind.

Thank you all for sending your positive vibes and crossing fingers, toes, eyes and everything else. Wish it had of worked but thems the breaks,  you win some your lose some.  Better luck next time.
Hugs Lindy

Monday, 23 May 2016


As we live so far from major shops, its easier to buy products online.  So Bear is waiting on  a purchase to be delivered.  The last time we ordered from these people it arrived the next day which surprised both of us. 


We have made a bet with each other, I said it would arrive Monday/Tuesday.  Well Mondays been and gone, so unless it arrives tomorrow I'm the loser.  Bear thinks it will arrive between Wednesday - Friday. 


If I'm right Bear is going to spank me,  if he's right  his prize is something else.

I was hoping and praying I would be right.  So I need  you all  to get behind me, send  your positive vibes it arrives tomorrow, Tuesday.  Keeping my fingers crossed.  LOL!

Have a good week everyone.

Hugs Lindy

Thursday, 19 May 2016


I finally received my birthday spanking last night it was,  delicious.  Things have been a bit unsettled around here of late with a new puppy in the house.  Bear and I are both sleep deprived, so not much action happening at all.  Also with D1 and little J visiting for my birthday last week, there was no chance of a birthday spanking.

So last night  Frankie took himself off to bed after cracking the poops with me.  We take him into the lounge room with us at night whilst we watch tv.  Some nights he settles down straight away on his blanket others it takes a while.  Last night he kept trying to bite me all the time,  I tried distracting him and talking to him, so finally told him he was grounded  Then put him the other side of the baby gate we have dividing the kitchen from lounge. 

Bear and I were relaxing watching tv when I got one of those annoying tickles in my throat causing me to cough.

Bear gave me THE LOOK!

I said as a joke....."Spank me then, haha!"

  To which he replied he would if I coughed again as he owed me my birthday spank anyway.  Wasn't long until I coughed again, he put his laptop on the table and motioned for me to get in position over his knee.

At times Bear pretends to play the drums on my behind with different rhythms, some hard, some soft. He started  drumming away which felt so, sooooo  good,  I was relaxing into it when he increased the tempo with harder spanks.  Neither of us kept count,  I'm sure he gave me way more than what I would have received for my many, many years.  It was sending me to my happy place and Bear was also enjoying the moment when Frankie woke up from the noise barking his head off.

  Pity as I'm sure it would have lead to nicer activities, unfortunately it was cut short.  Boohoo!

How do the rest of you manage with animals in the house?

PK I've been watching the dog whisperer, its really helpful, thanks for putting me onto it.  We tried to enroll Frankie into puppy school,  by the time they have a vacancy in July, he'll be too old.  So guess we'll be watching more of the dog whisperer to train him ourselves.

Enjoy the rest of your week everyone and have a nice relaxing weekend.  PK hope your foot isn't giving you any trouble.

Hugs Lindy

Thursday, 12 May 2016


Thank you all so much for flying to Australia for my virtual birthday party, it really meant a lot to me. You're all wonderful friends and brought me so much happiness.  I really had a blast with everyone's antics.  As it was an intercontinental party here is my thank you in many languages.

Pity google wasn't playing nicely that day and several of us had trouble accessing the blog.  Never mind we managed in the end.  Don't know about you all, but I was on such a sugar high from all the delicious desserts, and hung over from all the champagne, sangria and other drinks.  All those different things to try that we don't have here down under.

It was all worth it though and look forward to going to someone else's party when its their birthday.   Did you all make it home safe and sound?

  No hassles with customs this time or any jail birds?
 What did your HOHs think when you arrived home drunk and disorderly, did you get spanked?  Bear has made good use of all the new presents, there is something strange happening around our area,  like a glow in the dark light coming from my toushie.

This has been the best birthday I could have possibly asked for both in blog land and real life. 

D1 and little J drove up here to surprise me on Sunday night for mothers day arriving at dinner time. On my birthday Tuesday I woke up to the house decorated with Happy Birthday signs and balloons everywhere.  D1 made me a delicious breakfast, then an equally yummy lunch.  In the afternoon we went to a café with one of my friends for cake and coffee.  Then I made my favourite meal, a curry for dinner followed by a birthday cake D1 made and added a candle for every year.  Now don't go counting all those candles, although I'm proud I've made it to my age seeing my  poor mum didn't.

OMGoodness thought we would need the fire brigade,  its a wonder our fire alarms weren't set off.
Little J was supposed to help me blow the candles out,  then he chickened out.  I'm surprised I had the lung capacity for such an OLD DUCK.  LOL!

Thank you so much PK and Jan for everything you both did towards my party.  I am feeling really loved by everyone.

Enjoy the rest of your week.  Bear is off to the eye specialist tomorrow. fingers crossed they're not quite as bad as he was told.

Hugs Lindy xxx

Tuesday, 10 May 2016


Dust off your good clothes and dancing shoes....LETS PARTY LIKE THERES NO TOMORROW!

  Yes the BIG 0 has arrived will bells on.  Are you all ready to join me for a bit of fun?????  Plenty of food, wine and laughter.

Do you fancy a bit of dancing or karaoke?

  MMM wonder what this stick is supposed to be used for..... spanking a naughty bottom or a piñata?

Which do you vote it to be used for?  This  ..............

or that...........

Then of course there has to be a birthday spanking to end all the fun.

And some birthday cake.
Thank you all for joining me and making my day special, hope you had a fun time as I certainly did.
Hugs Lindy XXXX

Saturday, 7 May 2016

I'm so excited and I just can't hide it. So I'm going to shout it out at the top of my lungs.

Last night we drove to our nearest regional airport 120kms from our house to pick up my early birthday/mothers day gift.  My wonderful husband decided he would give me an extra special treat, to make up for everything that's been happening lately.  I was flabbergasted when he suggested this gift, as I had virtually been begging for one for the past two years.  Or at least since we had to say farewell to our last fur baby who went over the rainbow bridge, to be told definitely no way its going to happen.  So I had resigned myself to the fact there would be no more  in our household.

I'd like you all to meet Frankie, he's a Tenterfield terrier.  Frankie took three planes to arrive at his final destination crossing over three different states.  Poor little fella was so exhausted he slept on my knee the whole way home  in the car.  Then he scoffed his food down as he wasn't allowed to eat all day.

Bear has gone to so much trouble during the past week preparing for his arrival and wants to include Frankie in all family activities, which surprises me as my last puppy wasn't allowed in the car. Things have certainly changed in the our house.  So I better be on my best behaviour from now on.  Pfft! who am I kidding, then how would I get spanked.

Just a reminder don't forget to pop in sometime on Tuesday for a visit please, look forward to seeing you all.

Happy mothers day to everyone who celebrates it tomorrow.  Hope you get breakfast in bed and spoilt for the day.  Although everyday should be mothers day, not just one day a year.

Cheers, have a good weekend. 
Hugs Lindy

Tuesday, 3 May 2016

Bear stepping up.

My Bear seems to have stepped up his HOH position  becoming very strict of late, although I guess I've deserved what he has dished out.  I'm not supposed to lift my right arm above waist level on doctors orders.  This makes life really hard as far as house work goes, as I can't put the washing on or off the line.  Some times I forget, like today its been raining,  Bear was busy tinkling   in the garage, so I rushed outside to bring the washing in.
He came around the corner asking "What do you think your doing?"  I sort of looked at him and almost blurted out well isn't it obvious I'm getting the clothes off the line, then the penny dropped I'm not supposed to do it.  On my way back inside he looked around to make sure the neighbours weren't watching and pulled me in for a few hard whacks.

Then I decided  it was perfect weather to cook a  curry for dinner, so I climbed up on the foot stool to reach the ingredients in the cupboard.
Once again I was sprung reaching up,  down came my pants and panties whilst balancing on the stool. Boy that man has learnt how to swat really hard leaving my bottom stinging for ages.  Guess some girls never learn but its so frustrating not being able to do things.

On another subject, have any of you ever mixed your real life and blog lives up?  I've been guilty of it a few times lately letting small things slip.  The club Bear and I belong to are attending a function where each group has to perform something.  We ( Bear and I)  are not attending, yet a few of my friends keep nagging me to teach them different dances.
One time I mentioned..... you'll have to ask my boss as he wouldn't like his wife injured again.  On a second occasion I said something about Bear being my Dom.  Wondering now what they are all thinking and how to explain my way out of any questioning if it arises.

Sunday, 1 May 2016

Good riddance April

April has been a very trying month for me on many levels so thank goodness its over. I was sucked into a huge black hole, now trying to find my way back to happiness.
I'm facing May with a more positive attitude powering on and facing all my challengers with a better attitude.

Not going into  details but April was very, very hard with health problems and family problems.  WW4 broke out but I have removed myself for self preservation after spending a few trips over Bears knee for hard spankings.  So sorry I haven't been visiting you all around blog land lately.  Seems that I'm not the only one suffering though as both Meredith and Blondie have had their fair share of problems. Is it something to do with the time of year, weather or some other phenomenon?
May is a special month for me with my birthday coming up way too fast.  Things are going in a totally different direction than I had hoped as Bear has cancelled all the plans.  Maybe I could have an online party with all my blog friends? I'm going to put on my big girl panties and a brave face heading into my next decade.
So I'm baaacccckkkk!


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