Thursday, 2 February 2017

An incident happened on  face book this week,  I was chatting with some friends after posting a photo of my latest project.  They told me about this new yarn caron cakes which has just arrived in Australia.  I said I already have two huge baskets full of yarn which belonged to both our mums and that Bear would skin me alive if I purchased anymore.  Yet they said hide it from him.

I don't know about you but Bear and I always discuss purchases now we are retired.  So I wouldn't go behind his back to buy something which is totally  unnecessary.  At the rate I'm going making things my daughters will be inheriting this wool and neither of them knit/crochet.


This made me think, have you ever sat across the table from your friends thinking that girl needs a darn good spanking?  Sometimes when I'm with some people it makes my skin crawl to see and hear the way they treat their husbands and get away with it. TTWD sure makes you stop and think about the respectful thing to say and do.  Rather than rushing around like a bull in a china shop, letting off full steam at your loved one.


I so wish I could talk to some of my friends to make them understand and see how this all works.  To tell them how it brings you so much closer and you feel deeply in love with your man.


On a nicer note my Bear used to be a boob man, not only mine but anyone's, in particularly Dolly Parton's  For the past few years he seems to be more interested in my bottom.  Whilst we were cuddling the other day he told me he loves squeezing, kneading and spanking  my bottom. I told him I'm an angel can't you see my halo.  Well apparently my halo is around my bottom, so needs polishing regularly to keep it sparkling.  How funny,  that man cracks me up!

Already the start of the second month of the year and the end of another week.  All the kids returned to school this week over here after the summer holidays.  Time flies by so fast its scary at times.

Have a great weekend everyone.

Hugs Lindy xx

28 comments:

  1. Isn't is wonderful to be able to love and spank and laugh, somethimes all 3 at the same time. Time does fly, way too fast...
    hugs abby

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Abby it sure is wonderful being able to do all three at the same time.

      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete
  2. This is just an excellent post, Lindy! I do see that all the time. That bitchy woman just needs a good spanking and she would be a whole lot happier.

    I also have a very sweet DIL who has a huge problem with irresponsible spending. I do love her immensely, but wish I could whisper in my son's ear.

    Sending Hugs Downunder,
    Ella

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Ella maybe you need to drop some hints to your son about your dil. You never know what might happen.

      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete
  3. Oh yes, I know several women who could use a serious spanking. Especially for talking so disrespectfully about their husbands. I hate hearing that.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I hate hearing it also PK. Should be more spanked women.

      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete
  4. Oh yes, I've often thought that lots of times, sometimes even me. lol

    ReplyDelete
  5. Lindy,
    Great post! Thinking about your man when talking and making purchases are fine ways to show respect.
    Meredith

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I've always asked before purchasing just in case Meredith. These womens attitudes are weird.

      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete
  6. My sister is awful in the way she speaks to her partner, effing and blinding as well as general disrespect. Harry and I hate to listen to it but her chap seems to take it in his stride.
    The change in weather seems to have brought Bear's mojo back, long may it continue!
    Rosie xx

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. My 2nd eldest sister is the same with her hubby. Its shocking to hear the way she talks to him. Yet he takes it in hi stride.

      I definitely think the warmer weather is helping Bears mojo. Hope it lasts.
      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete
  7. I smiled when I read your entry this morning -- and couldn't help muttering aloud when I read you this morning... that I know quite a few in the lifestyle that could use the same talking to....... it always boggles my mind how much some women whatever their leaning - take advantage of the men in their lives..... it kinda makes my blood boil.......

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Definitely there is no need to be disrespectful to your loved one.
      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete
  8. Hi Lindy, I often thought this when I was teaching. You have no idea how awful couples are when they are learning to dance together!! I wanted to smack a few myself....
    Glad bear is still in a fun mood ;)
    love Jan, xx

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. That made me laugh Jan. Maybe you should have smacked the couples to set them straight.
      Its all fun and games in our house lately. sounds like in yours also.
      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete
  9. LoL Lindy at your halo being around your bottom. Rick used to be more of a boob man too and definitely appreciates bottoms more nowdays, funny how that happens lol.

    I've often thought the same thing listening to how certain friends in particular treat their husbands, I used to hate it. Not surprisingly those couples are now either divorced or separated.

    Hugs
    Roz

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Oh our men are so alike Roz swapping from boobs to bottoms.

      Oh dear pity they didn't follow TTWD and their marriages might have been saved.
      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete
  10. Hi Lindy, :) I enjoyed your post very much! It is so interesting how being in this lifestyle, leads to noticing the negative interactions of other couples, on a continual basis. It is kind of sad how frequently one can spot those. Sure makes me extra appreciative that with ttwd, we live in such an extraordinary, loving way now!

    LOL! I think it's wonderful that your Bear needs to polish up your halo on a frequent basis. That sure is good for you! ;) Love the fun loving you both share! Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. TTWD does make us all appreciate our loved ones more. Wish all these others could take a look into our lives.
      Bear and I are having so much fun and laughter at the moment.

      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete
  11. There's nothing better than laughter in a relationship, Lindy. Oh and I definitely agree, have seen more than one woman that needed a barn burner...have actually informed a few of that matter as well as giving a paddle to my youngest son and DIL...she really reads it. :D

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Oh Cat how did you son and dil react to receiving a paddle? That would have been hilarious. Yes there are quite a few out there that need barn burners indeed.
      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete
  12. Hi Lindy, I agree that so many could do with a spanking! I also laughed at Sunny's comment and think it about myself as well! Glad your re- aligned halo is getting polished! ;))

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Haha Minelle aren't you an angel also. I'm sure you are not one of those that are disrespectful to your Scotsman. Or else he would skelp you. LOL!

      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete
    2. Oh Lindy I can be a cheeky bugger as my Scotsman bellows often. He loves me like that..... mostly ;)

      Delete
  13. a spanking a day keeps the trouble away... :-) your post made me smile...glad you have someone to polish your halo ;-) Hugs

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thank you Terps. I'm very lucky having my spanky man to polish my halo and keep me happy.

      Hugs Lindy xx

      Delete

FFF #45

How on earth are we supposed to stick to healthy eating with all those delicious recipes floating around with the cookie exchange.  I think ...