Friday, 19 January 2018

LETS TALK ABOUT SEX BABY!



Bet that  got your attention hey? 




Going outside my comfort zone here, just thought this was interesting and maybe you will also.

Weeeellllll   after a  conversation with a blogger  friend recently about sex toys, I learnt something new......... Yep never too old to learn new things. 

Bears and my  experience is very limited, we did have a vibrator when we were first married, almost 39 years ago, neither of us liked it.  Yes they did have vibrators in the dinosaur era.  I googled it to see when vibrators were first invented and it was in the 19th century. Apart from this the only toys we have are of the spanking variety and one dress up type.



 Did you know ben wa balls can help pelvic floor muscles? It was a total surprise to me, I thought they were just to enhance your sex experience.  Read the following article   The Ultimate Beginners Guide to Ben Wa Balls.

http://www.ben-wa-balls.org/the-ultimate-beginners-guide-to-ben-wa-balls

So   I shared this piece of information with my girls as we can MOSTLY talk about anything together.  Especially now they know their mum and dad are spankos.


Do you have any toys of interest?  Maybe you can teach me some interesting facts about them also. Look forward to learning some more  from you all.

23 comments:

  1. LOL yes i knew about the Ben Wa balls. Also, if you click on the "toy" label on my blog you'll probably find some interesting things.

    some of the stuff I see online are pretty much "ok, yeah" and then there are some that amuse me no end!

    Happy surfing!!

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    1. PS Wish sells tons of sex toys at affordable prices if you wanna try a couple :) Just sayin'.

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    2. Thanks Fondles will go look at your toy post. And maybe check out wish.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  2. I have had vibrators of all shapes and sizes for many years (I was in my 40's I guess when I bought my first ones)... they seemed 'naughty' ya know.... grinning.... and I did enjoy them with a partner (especially considering the partner was impotent)

    BUT I went a few years after the break up with no interest in my vibrators and no actual sex -- was in for my yearly check up at the doctor's and she suggested that I might want to start to using one of my vibrators on a regular basis because the vagina walls had started to atrophy -- yup -- it's a muscle and can atrophy like any other unused muscle which will and did cause all sorts of problems (like spotting)

    So I went back to my vibrators. And things started to improve.

    Of course now I am with Sir Steve there is no need for vibrators and no fear of the atrophy returning.... but I keep them in a lovely wooden box in the bedroom -- just in case :)

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    1. Morningstar that is so interesting and I had never thought about a vagina atrophy before. See now I've learnt another new thing, thank you.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  3. Interesting, my friend, but not sure I can add much to the conversation. Curious what others may say though.
    -- Baker

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    1. It is interesting Baker. Maybe you should try them. LOL!
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  4. We got ben-wa balls years ago for play, but I haven't thought about them in a long time. I may have to give them more thought.

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    1. Well there you go PK my post has been beneficial in reminding you to dig out your ben-wa balls.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  5. To be honest, we are not very experienced in using sex toys. I have a vibrator which is used on rare occasion and usually on my own when hubby is not available and/or it has been a really long stretch with no sex. Otherwise, a few spanking toys that need to be dusted off. Have fun exploring and learning new things. :-) Hugs

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    1. Thank you Terps, its an eye opener for me learning all these new things.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  6. Hi Lindy, not my area of expertise, out of my comfort zone here, lol
    love Jan, xx

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    1. Sorry if I'm making you blush Jan. You might pick up some useful information from other bloggers here.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  7. I’m playing dress up tonight but the contents of the toy box remain between Harry and me!
    Rosie xx

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    1. Oh that's a teaser Rosie! Have fun whatever you and Harry do.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  8. Lindy,
    Throughout our marriage, sex toys have played a big part in helping in those deployments. Like Rosie, I prefer to keep them between Jack and me. However, i will say that these toys literally kept me sane until my man returned.
    Meredith

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    1. Thank you Meredith, good to hear your toys kept you sane whilst Jack was absent.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  9. Hi Lindy,

    Yep, you got my attention lol. Love your comment about vibrators being around in the dinosaur era lol.

    Yes, I did know that about ben wa balls. I think it's great that you can share this with your daughters.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Glad I got your attention Roz. It is easy to talk to the girls about some things.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  10. Hi Lindy,
    I believe Eric and I are one of the very few couples who are in our second marriages, unlike most of the bloggers who have been with their partners for many decades. As a result, we both had some time exploring while single - makes for more toy opportunity I think. That said, we have a rather large toy box. Yes, it's full of spanking implements and some silly dress up stuff primarily left over from Halloween. I would say a lot more but the other bloggers seem uncomfortable with the subject so I'll email you.
    Amy

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    1. Thanks Amy, look forward to your email.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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  11. Somehow i missed this post - better late than never.

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    1. Always better to be late then never, thanks for dropping by Sunny.
      Hugs Lindy xx

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