Thursday 5 November 2015

Giggling teenagers

Well that was an interesting week with our daughter and grandson staying here. Little J, 7 y.o. is special needs so we learnt 101 ways to have a melt down and get your own way.  Bear tried enforcing 'its our house this is the way its done' to no avail.  His poor Mumma is exhausted from being on the go constantly with him as he hardly sleeps.  So she took advantage of catching up on extra sleep whilst we entertained little J.  He only communicates through his ipad, which is interesting as he talks with several different accents.

Bears palm became very twitchy with me and he took advantage every time we were in a room alone to give me a hard swat.  Also after being sick for over a week, then family staying he wanted a bit of action in both the spanky and lovey fields.  We thought we were safe once our daughter took Little J out to watch a ship departing.  So we snuck off to the bedroom for some fun.  Bear only closed the door over instead of completely shut AND we got sprung.  OOPS!

Then every night Bear was in the mood in bed but our bed is a bit noisy and our bedroom is only a short distance from the guest room.  We started getting passionate, then squeak, squeak of our silly bed  which turned us into teenagers  giggling like trying to hide from parents.  Mr Spanky Man took full advantage as soon as our daughter and Little J drove away yesterday.  I was nervous they might return for some reason and get sprung again, so couldn't relax.

So hopefully back to normal living until Christmas time now.  I do love having them here  and miss them terribly  but it is so tiring, so we feel like we need a holiday to recover.

have a good week Lindy

14 comments:

  1. I sure understand how hard it can be for your daughter dealing with a young child with special needs. My sister has a child with special needs and she never sleeps. We all try and help, but is harder for them.
    As to the spanky stuff and loving.... Great fun!

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    1. Thanks Minelle. We have always tried to help but harder these days living so far away. she enjoys her visits down here to relax.
      Most definitely the spanky loving stuff is great fun. Hope you get some soon from your Scotsman.
      Hugs Lindy

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  2. I'm surprised you had time to post - that you weren't going at it like teenagers when they're parents go away.

    Sorry for your daughter dealing with her special needs child. It can be overwhelming trying to keep up. I'm sure she appreciates the break she had while with you.

    Have fun and store up - Christmas is just around the corner.

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    1. LOL Sunny, it is a wonder we had time but think the forbidden fruit is sweeter for Bear if you know what I mean.
      Our daughter did enjoy her time down here with resting and getting plenty of TLC.
      Christmas is coming way too fast or is it because I'm getting older. Will store up plenty of fun times until then.
      Hugs Lindy

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  3. Hi Lindy, gosh, sounds like quite a week! I can imagine how difficult it is keeping up with a special needs child. I'm sure your daughter enjoyed the break and help.

    Had to giggle at the squeaky bed, funny how suddenly you are hiding from your children instead of your parents lol. Oops at getting caught.

    Hope you enjoy some spanky fun now :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz, thank you it was good but full on with them here. Yes caught up on spanky fun without worrying about noises being overheard.

      Have a good weekend.
      Hugs Lindy

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  4. Worrying that you'll get caught can add to the excitement at times, can't it? I'd glad you were able to visit with them and I'm glad you have the place to yourself again.

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    1. It was really great with the added worry of getting caught. Made it feel extra special. It was a full on week enjoyed by all. Now we can just be us again and no tip toeing around sneaking behind backs. hehe!
      Enjoy your extra long weekend PK.
      Hugs Lindy

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  5. Hi Lindy, oh your poor daughter, it is very hard to deal with a special needs child, bless her. Ooh and fancy getting caught, made me laugh,sorry can't help it, it's usually us!
    love Jan,xx

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    1. Thanks Jan, it is very hard for our daughter as little Js dad can't handle it all. It was funny but a bit embarrassing getting caught. Think my face must have been red as a beetroot but we tried to carry on as though nothing happened.

      have a good weekend.
      Hugs Lindy

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  6. Hi Lindy,

    Aha! I finally found your blog! We also feel the same after our grandkids have visited. We need a long rest to recuperate. It's nice to see them, but not too often.

    I'm glad you and Bear were able to make up for lost time once the house was yours alone.

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. Hi Hermione, glad you found my blog at last. Yes its nice to see them and nice to see them go. We love them to bit but enjoy our peace and quiet.
      Hugs Lindy

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  7. giggling teenagers - so sweet. :-) I am sure your daughter was so grateful for being cared for by you on her visit so she in turn could go home and take care of your grandson and I am sure your grandson enjoyed his time with you. I think any vacation always requires a "vacation" from the vacation...just a little time of complete relaxation after a busy and fun time before returning to routine... :-) Hugs

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    1. Thanks Terps Yes our daughter did enjoy her time here being pampered and recharging her batteries for when she returns home. Little J has a ball here and loves spending time with his Papa.
      Hugs Lindy

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