OLIVIA ASKS A VERY INTERESTING QUESTION

Olivia asks when did you first know that you were into kink? How did you realize it? Is there a story that goes with that?

From a very young age, I've had what I thought was a weird feeling of wanting to be spanked.  I was spanked as a child by my dad, which I hated.  Yet this yearning was something different. When Bear and I first met we made a bet.  If I won he would spank me and if he won well.........

Anyway that was my first spanking in our relationship.  We both enjoyed it and continued until our children came along.  Bear would have still spanked then also, only I was worried about the noise factor.  So it was put on hold until we moved to our new house.


Our son, dil and grandchildren came to visit not long after moving here.  Dil was going on about a disgusting book all her friends were reading which they asked her to read also.  This piqued my interest so much, that Bear took me to our local library to borrow the books. Boy was that an eye opener for me.

One night Bear was in his music room playing his instrument and I was curled up on the couch reading FSOG in the lounge room.  I read all the books and voila!  I discussed my need to be spanked again to Bear.  Although we had indulged earlier in our marriage he was like No way I can't hurt you. So he did a bit of research himself, finding many blogs after typing in the word SPANK on google.

Up until this point I thought I was the only one who loved to be spanked. Was I crazy, what is wrong with me? Then it opened up a whole new world, when I found everyone's blogs and realised there are others with the same craving so to speak.

We mainly do TTWD for fun so haven't got into anything too heavy. I would like to try many others things, unfortunately I can't persuade my Bear to try them though. He is a very gentle man, so is hesitant. TTWD has made us closer like newly weds again, we are both loving the effects.

Thank you for your question Olivia, it was fun to answer. 

Hugs Lindy xx